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20-25% chance each month - does this compound??

I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around this probability question, it seems simple up front but I've dissected it and now I need help getting out of this black hole.

Let's say you have a 20% chance (1 in 5) each month of conceiving. You don't conceive the first month. Does that mean you now have a 40% chance of conceiving in month #2?

If 1 in 5 people TTC successfully conceive each month, shouldn't the odds of success by month 5 be close to 100%? (all health/fertility factors aside)

I realize this is borderline BSC and maybe I do want someone to say "YES you are in month 3 therefore your odds this time are 60%!"

Any stats wizards out there???

Me: 33 | DH: 34
TTC #1 Oct 2015
BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 <3
TTC #2 since Mar 2017
DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO)  = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269



Re: 20-25% chance each month - does this compound??

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  • No.  You have a 20% chance each month independent of how long you have been trying (unless you have fertility issues).  So by month 2, 64% of healthy couples still won't be pregnant.  By month three that's around 49%.  By month 6 around 74% of healthy couples should be pregnant, but that still leaves 26% that won't be.
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  • No.  You have a 20% chance each separate cycle.




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  • I think PPs have covered it but I'll just add another example. It's like playing the lottery:  your odds of winning do not increase each time you play, they're the same every time you buy a ticket.

    You want it to be the "Monty Hall" problem scenario (I did too), but it's just not. Each month is a discrete chance. 

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  • Does anyone know what goes in to the "20% chance with perfect timing" thing? Is that once in the fertile window? Right before o? I always have so many questions about what that means.
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  • @MrsDho11 you can nitpick if you want.

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  • MrsDho11 said:
    I will not nitpick.  I will not nitpick.  
    Nitpick away @MrsDho11!  Would love to hear from someone who has more experience in statistics than I do.  The way I approached it is that if a couple has a 20% chance of becoming pregnant each cycle, there is an 80% chance that they will not become pregnant.  So to calculate the probability that the couple still won't be pregnant after 2 months (assuming good fertility and assuming all other variables stay steady, which is rarely true):  .8 * .8 = 64% probability of no pregnancy after 2 months.  For three months, .8^3 is about 49%, for month 6 .8^6 is around 26%, and so on and so forth.  But maybe I'm missing something.
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  • Does anyone know what goes in to the "20% chance with perfect timing" thing? Is that once in the fertile window? Right before o? I always have so many questions about what that means.
    I can't put my finger on the exact origin of that right now, but I believe that it is roughly "if you had sex every 2 to 3 days during your FW".

    But that's going off memory, and my memory is pretty shitty.
    Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016
    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019





  • Maybe this helps:

    Scenario 1:

    Month 1: TTC, unsuccessful
    Month 2: TTC

    Scenario 2:

    Month 1: no sex in FW
    Month 2: TTC

    As far as your body is concerned, once you're in month 2, it doesn't matter what happened in month 1 - whether you TTCed or not. As long as you weren't on hormonal BC, your body is in the same position in month 2, so your odds for that month are 20%.

    However, your cumulative odds for the 2 months are higher in Scenario 1, because you had two months of TTC instead of just 1.


  • MrsDho11 said:



    Does anyone know what goes in to the "20% chance with perfect timing" thing? Is that once in the fertile window? Right before o? I always have so many questions about what that means.

    I can't put my finger on the exact origin of that right now, but I believe that it is roughly "if you had sex every 2 to 3 days during your FW".

    But that's going off memory, and my memory is pretty shitty.

    Good enough for me. Thanks!
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  • NEVER make yourself a statistic. Recent research says 39.6% of men and women will be diagnosed with cancer at some point in their lives. That doesn't make a hill of beans to the person who gets it. For them, they got cancer, end of discussion. My favorite one is being struck by lightning. You have a 1/12000 odds of being struck by lighting. The person who gets struck by lighting still has a really crappy day, even if they have low chances of it happening.

    Also, statistics are an average of a large sample population. Not every couple is trying to get pregnant. Not every couple is temping and having sex in their fertile window to increase chances of conception. Not every couple has the same genetic make up. Not every couple has the same health picture. Statistics help when looking at the whole picture, but are not as useful when dealing with your own unique situation.

    Also, what everyone else said, it doesn't compound, it's each unique month.
  • simcal18 said:


    MrsDho11 said:

    I will not nitpick.  I will not nitpick.  

    Nitpick away @MrsDho11!  Would love to hear from someone who has more experience in statistics than I do.  The way I approached it is that if a couple has a 20% chance of becoming pregnant each cycle, there is an 80% chance that they will not become pregnant.  So to calculate the probability that the couple still won't be pregnant after 2 months (assuming good fertility and assuming all other variables stay steady, which is rarely true):  .8 * .8 = 64% probability of no pregnancy after 2 months.  For three months, .8^3 is about 49%, for month 6 .8^6 is around 26%, and so on and so forth.  But maybe I'm missing something.

    I think I see what you did there! Is that like a null hypothesis? Okay now I'm more confused!
    Me: 33 | DH: 34
    TTC #1 Oct 2015
    BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 <3
    TTC #2 since Mar 2017
    DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
    IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
    IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
    FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
    FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO)  = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269



  • @mrsdho11 Iwillnotgoooglefecundability Iwillnotgoooglefecundability Iwillnotgoooglefecundability
    Me: 33 | DH: 34
    TTC #1 Oct 2015
    BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 <3
    TTC #2 since Mar 2017
    DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
    IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
    IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
    FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
    FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO)  = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269



  • @PrettyPalomino - nope, @simcal18 is not offering a null hypothesis.  If it helps think of "heads" as being pregnant and "tails" as being not pregnant.  Now you have a coin that's weighted where the odds of it coming up heads = 20%, tails = 80%.  The chances of six consecutive "tails" in that situation is roughly 26%.
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    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019





  • Oooh, I was too late to this thread! Are you a fellow stats major, @MrsDho11?? I love stats discussions! :)
    I went the Bayes route, too, before I read your response. 
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  • MrsDho11 said:
    simcal18 said:
    MrsDho11 said:
    I will not nitpick.  I will not nitpick.  
    Nitpick away @MrsDho11!  Would love to hear from someone who has more experience in statistics than I do.  The way I approached it is that if a couple has a 20% chance of becoming pregnant each cycle, there is an 80% chance that they will not become pregnant.  So to calculate the probability that the couple still won't be pregnant after 2 months (assuming good fertility and assuming all other variables stay steady, which is rarely true):  .8 * .8 = 64% probability of no pregnancy after 2 months.  For three months, .8^3 is about 49%, for month 6 .8^6 is around 26%, and so on and so forth.  But maybe I'm missing something.
    I mean, it's close enough, that's why I said "nitpick".  :)  

    It's a simple model, but it's useful and good enough for our purposes.  There's no need to let me make this unnecessarily complicated.  

    I wrote out a longer answer including the ways that it is more complicated in that, but I feel like as soon as I started bringing Bayes into it, it became clear that I was taking this too far.  Then I said this to myself:


    Hahahah. I popped in to bring Bayes' rule into it. I'm gonna just pop back out. @MrsDho11 has got this. 
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    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019





  • And awww @DarthFuriosa! I was wondering all day if you were going to come play with me!
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