I'm back - waiting to miscarry (TW)

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

For those who are newer to this board and did not know me before, I got my second BFP in November after trying for 15 months after my first loss. We saw the heartbeat on US at 6+4, but had a very different experience at 9+4. Our baby no longer had a HB and measured only 8 weeks. I am now 10+2 and still waiting to miscarry naturally.

I will be benched for a while but found this board comforting and helpful before, so I thought it might be helpful to re-join, even while I go through the loss. I'm sorry we are all here but appreciate that we have each other - we all understand this process of grief and mourning.

ceclarlinetlo · January 2016

@AL_TwinCities I am so so so sorry for your loss. There just aren't words for how much this blows.

PeggyOlsonFTW · January 2016

No! I'm so so so sorry @AL_TwinCities My heart is absolutely breaking for you and your DH

queenklau · January 2016

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I am so sorry! Concurrent mc is such a heartbreaking experience, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I am currently ttc after 2 mc over the past year, similar situation to yours. HB at 7 wks and no HB at 9-10 weeks.
Hang in there, you may feel differently. I had completely different emotions between the two. I was very angry second time around, but also very proactive to ID the root of the problem. Are you getting testing done this time around? I just got my results and everything came back normal with me, but my baby had turners syndrome, which was the cause of my second mc. It was good to find out the cause so that we can prepare better next time.

I wish you the best in healing and then ttc when you are ready.

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

@klauerinaking we are thinking we probably won't send the tissue off for testing. I'm not sure if the information would help, or just stress us out more for future pregnancies. We'll see though how we feel in the moment. When we got our BFP this time around we were two weeks away from an infertility consult appointment, so we will get that back on the calendar once the miscarriage is over.

Thank you all for your support. I knew this would be a good place to come back to.

silentP · January 2016

I am so, so sorry to hear this. There is something about being in the "multiple loss" camp that just feels so surreal and awful, and I am sorry you find yourself there, too. Please be kind to yourself and I hope things progress soon so the physical part is over ASAP.

We are here for you.

jsassy · January 2016

Hugs @AL_TwinCities I've been thinking about you a lot

AmMcc12 · January 2016

So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself!

GoldenTMama · January 2016

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I hope this board does help in some small way, as I know it has for so many of us.

RiverSong15 · January 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss and your struggles TTC. It's always so heartbreaking, and there are no real words of comfort, but I hope this board helps you again. Hugs.

valleric · January 2016

So sorry you are back!

Kay6519 · January 2016

I'm sorry for your loss! I hope you and your family find peace and comfort in this difficult time. Also hoping your stay with us is short and that you don't find yourself needing to return again down the road. Multiple MCs are just tragic.

FireInWonderland · January 2016

So sorry to hear about this. I remember that pain from my loss and I am so sorry you're going through this again after trying for so long. FX that it's much quicker for you the next time you are off the bench. Again, words can't express my condolences for you at this painful time, my thoughts are with you and your family.

megsbrock · January 2016

What an emotional roller coaster you have been on...sending good thoughts your way so that you have the strength to handle whatever is thrown your way over the next few months. I am so very sorry for both of your losses.

penelope4612 · January 2016

So sorry to hear about your loss. Hugs.

MissPrint1219 · January 2016

So sorry for your loss

BornReady · January 2016

So sorry you have to be here again. We're all here when you need us.

m6agua · January 2016

Sorry for your loss.

dpjennifer · January 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss.

cjs260 · January 2016

So sorry for your loss. I know there are no words right now, but my heart goes out for you.

lilyaster · January 2016

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this again.

MissAmeliaPond · January 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember you from when you were on TTGP a while ago, and it is heartbreaking to see this. *Hugs*

fafa1111 · January 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm new to this board after a CP and can't imagine what you're going through. Heartbreaking. **Hugs**

WinchesterGirl · January 2016

Oh, this absolutely breaks my heart! I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and DH.

Tippy05 · January 2016

I'm so sorry for your losses @AL_TwinCities . Going through it once was hard enough. I can't imagine going through it a second time. ((hugs))

tinypikachu · January 2016

I am so so sorry. I feel awful for you, I just can't imagine the pain. Take really good care of yourself and know that you're not alone. I wish you and your DH the best and will pray for you. It's never easy so cut yourself some slack while you grieve such a loss.

ssnova · January 2016

Im so very sorry @AL_TwinCities...I'll be praying for you and your family, we are here for you.

ErinJoshua2011 · January 2016

@AL_TwinCities So very sorry for your loss...praying for healing for you and your DH.

ejmo68 · January 2016

I hate to see you here! I remember you from TTGP. I had a MC in Oct. So sorry for your loss

NamelessAria · January 2016

I'm so sorry.

I wish there was something I could say or do that would take some of your pain away. Here is a creepy internet hug

Image: https://www.awesomelyluvvie.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Abby-hug-Olivia.gif

Hopefully, whenever you're ready to try again, you finally get your take-home rainbow baby.

alanna3622 · January 2016

@AL_TwinCities hugs to you. I am wondering how you are doing? I hope things went as smoothly as possible for you. Please do check in if you feel up to it. And know that we are here with you.

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

Hey all, thank you so much for all of your support. I am still waiting for this to start, and have a follow up appointment with my doctor on Tuesday where we will talk about next steps if nothing has happened by then. I hate the wait, but still am really hoping this happens naturally. My last loss was just shy of 6 weeks, and it just felt like a heavy period. I had a really hard time accepting that loss and feeling like I had closure. For some reason I think physically feeling the miscarriage will help me process this one. Thank you all for your well wishes and kind words.

indulgentgypsy · January 2016

@AL_TwinCities

I did not want to see either of us here

I am sorry you are going through this again too.

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

CoachBeckyCooper said:
@AL_TwinCities

I did not want to see either of us here I am sorry you are going through this again too.

Oh @CoachBeckyCooper I'm so sorry you are also going through another loss. So many hugs.

alanna3622 · January 2016

@AL_TwinCities I saw your update in the miscarriage board. It looks like there are other women sharing first hand accounts there so I didn't want to put condolences on there. That thread will be a helpful resource and I admire your bravery and willingness to do that.

I am so glad that this ordeal/process has finally gotten you out of your waiting/limbo stage. I have had you in my thoughts these days, and have so much compassion for you.

I hope you can rest today and start to heal.

(((Hugs))) to you from an Internet stranger.

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

Thank you so much @alanna3622. This made me tear up - after all you have been through yourself, you still are able to offer such comfort to others. Hugs right back!

modernmamacita · January 2016

I am so sorry for your loss @AL_TwinCities. Miscarriage is heart breaking. I had my 2nd one this summer and also decided to go to try to let it pass naturally. I used acupuncture to help and swear by it. I'm also from the Twin Cities and I can give you a great recommendation to a local acupuncturist if you're interested.

AL_TwinCities · January 2016

Angela7Hickman said:

I am so sorry for your loss @AL_TwinCities. Miscarriage is heart breaking. I had my 2nd one this summer and also decided to go to try to let it pass naturally. I used acupuncture to help and swear by it. I'm also from the Twin Cities and I can give you a great recommendation to a local acupuncturist if you're interested.

Thank you @Angela7Hickman! I have been seeing an acupuncturist weekly since we were TTC - I started seeing her the cycle I got pregnant, so I definitely believe in the power of chinese medicine and acupuncture! I go to Healing InSight in Saint Paul and love it.

kduncan212 · January 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss love. Praying for you. I hope you take care of yourself and know that you are loved.

Jennmiller1 · January 2016

I am so sorry me amd my husband went through waiting to naturally miscarriage the last 2 weeks. It was such an emotional roller coaster. We had no heart beat just rising hcg levels. Ended up in the ed with a ruptured ectopic pregnancy. Couldn't imagine your shoes. Stay strong. Praying for you

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