I just realized this is what we have been following, of course it can vary some days depending on how long he sleeps, how well he nurses, ect.
He also typically takes 2 somewhat long naps a day (1 hour to 2.5 hours) should he be taking more frequent but shorter ones? Here is my schedul
:7-8:30am: wake up and nurse, then he is super happy! We smile at each other after he eats for a bit and he talks all kinds of baby babbles to me
Around 9am: go downstairs so I can have some breakfast, Eli goes in th bouncer or under the activity gym, I sit and eat my breakfast and play with him
10am: nurse again and then I get us both dressed for the day (this is when he is sleepy afterwards and it is my window to run errands)
Around 11am: out to grocery shop or run whatever errands need to be done, Eli typically falls asleep in the car
12:30/1:00: return from errands and he might sleep longer at home, but typically will wake up and then nurse
2:00: if I haven't eaten lunch I try to make myself something. Carry Eli around and clean a little, he might have more bouncer or activity gym time, or we do tummy time in the nursery
3:00/4:00 he will want to eat again and can start getting cranky around this time, after he eats I will cuddle him and pat his back until he falls asleep then I will try to transfer him to the crib
5:00/5:30 he wakes up and eats again, Paul and I have dinner when he gets home
6:00: Eli spends time with dad, we all hang out for a little bit
7:30/8 bath time , and then nurse afterwards
10/11pm: I pump and typically get a decent amount of milk
1/2am: wake up to nurse
4/5am: wake up to nurse
And then repeat!
It can vary for sure, sometimes things are earlier or later. He can also go 6 hour stretches some nights. And it seems like he nurses 8 times a day.