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Twatwaffle Tuesday 12/22

midge519midge519 member
in October 2015 Moms
its holiday season, who is/are the twatwaffle(s) in your life currently
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Re: Twatwaffle Tuesday 12/22

  • millereliz13millereliz13 member
    My SIL. Omg, she's a dramaed queen. In past threads, I have spoken about how she placed photos on Facebook of my son on Thanksgiving where DH's bio mom whom we are estranged from could see pictures of my son. I spent all of December dreading seeing her for family Christmas. She caused drama by taking a picture and after my DH told her not to post it, said it's just snapchat, posted it anyways and told us to get over his biomom situation. Umm, biomom is abusive and I'm not wanting her to know about or be involved in my lo's life. We then took lo in the next room. This morning she posted some passive agressive shit about losing respect and how people who treat biomom like trash will regret it when she dies. For the record, I'm a nice person who let's things slide. But biomom was physically abusive she verbally abused myself and my family, and she threatenedmy husband with more physical violence. When his biomom dies, I'm going to dance on her grave. Which isn't me, I normally find it distasteful. So today I nominate my SIL twatwaffle of the week.

    And for the record, if you have 4 kids and only 1 talks to you, you might be an abusive f**k.

    I love you gals!
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  • chein1chein1 member
    @millereliz13 I totally get where you're coming from. No parent gets respect just because they're a parent. If you don't want your child on social media, that should be respected. I am so sorry she's a cunt. Happy Holidays! :)
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  • millereliz13millereliz13 member
    @chein1 Thank you! I could write a great soap opera about his family. SIL thinks the other three should just forgive the biomom and give her access to her "grandchildren." Happy Holidays to your as well! I'm counting down till we see my family, I've been promised a glass a burbon and some cake.
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  • alinic916alinic916 member
    My stupid employee health office is a twatwaffle!!! I have to go get 2 different tests before I go back, both of which take 2 seconds before I go back to work next Wednesday.  They said the only time I can do one of them is tomorrow between 2-3pm.  They won't do the other one at the same time because it has ti be read 48 hours.  Up until this year, they would let any RN read it, but now we have to go back to have it read.  So I have to go Monday at 7 am to get it and have it read at 7 am on Wednesday.  I'm supposed to be at work at 6:45 Wednesday morning and they won't let me go in until I have this stupid test read.  So I will have to go to work late which made me cry because now I'm freaking out because I don't know when I'm going to have time to pump or do any of my morning stuff I have to do.  I have ALOT of stuff to get done before we start rounds with the doctors at 9 am.  I just want to cry and scream and never go back to work!!  Yes, I'm probably over reacting, but I'm so nervous to go back to work already and this is making it worse.
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  • midge519midge519 member
    edited December 2015
    My twatwaffle this week is the person on another month board using my picture. I know super dumb but when I'm lurking other boards I get incredibly weirded out seeing my picture as someone elses avatar. I took this picture in my car of my stuffed cow. Get your own. In reality its such a dumb thing and its just my cow but its still super weird to come across

    Edit-Now trying to find it again I'm pretty sure they've changed it lol
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  • millereliz13millereliz13 member
    @midge519 As a photographer, I'm very territorial about my work. Id feel the same way if someone took my avatar, which is our cat.
    @aprosch that stinks! I hope your first day back goes smoothly
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  • alinic916alinic916 member
    @millereliz13 Thanks.  I talked to my assistant nurse manager and she said to try not to stress about it and she'll help me in the morning and show me our lactation room and everything.  I'm so glad she's working that day.
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  • lrichardson11486lrichardson11486 member
    Currently I am pissed at the twatwaffle US postal service. I still haven't gotten the clothes I ordered on Black Friday, and when I called USPS customer service I ended up in voice prompt hell and absolutely could not get a live person on the phone no matter what I said. Twatwaffle central >:-(
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  • tulegrl14tulegrl14 member
    Twatwaffle goes out to my MIL. Uhhh were do I begin. They always come over Un announced and when LO cries she's like did you try this or he likes that. You don't take care of him 24 7 so how do you know what he likes. The biggest thing that bugs me will be "oh he's cold mom, his feet are cold." so then she will go take him in his room an close the door and then come back out and then he has socks on under his footie pjs. I'm like the kid is not cold don't you know that babies have poor circulation and there feet are always cold. I have to leave the room sometimes because I will slap her.
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  • midge519midge519 member
    i have another...my family and their guilt trips. I've posted before about my dads side having a big get together on Christmas. This year after Grandma passed away in April it was decided that the big get together wouldn't be on Christmas Day. That's was great for us and we decided then that we were staying home Christmas Day and relaxing. Suddenly a month or so ago they decided that it was going back to the original day. First my mom tried to guilt trip me saying no one saw us on thanksgiving, that was yet another change of dates but that time I wasn't informed. I politely but firmly stated our choice and explained why and she backed off. Now my aunt texts asking and is trusting to guilt me saying my one cousin and his family is even coming this year (they always celebrate on their own since they live 1-2hours away). I said that we didn't plan on it and if we did stop out it would be an impromptu stop out but it wasn't in our plans. She responded sarcastically with ok have a nice Christmas. I'm annoyed. Stop changing the damn plans, understand when people don't want to do what you want to do, and stop trying to guilt me into doing something. I want to enjoy my family. We have a baby that cries most of his awake time. I'd rather not deal with that around 30 people including a bunch of children who don't listen. I just don't want to. I've stated this over and over but they don't seem to get it!
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  • SquirtgunSquirtgun member
    midge519 said:

    My twatwaffle this week is the person on another month board using my picture. I know super dumb but when I'm lurking other boards I get incredibly weirded out seeing my picture as someone elses avatar. I took this picture in my car of my stuffed cow. Get your own. In reality its such a dumb thing and its just my cow but its still super weird to come across

    Edit-Now trying to find it again I'm pretty sure they've changed it lol


    **lurker from n15. Had my LO oct 4, so I kind of belong over here too?**

    The bump sometimes has weird glitches where your picture shows up as someone else's avatar. It's happened to me and I've seen a few other people saying the same thing. Not sure why it happens, but if you check back on another device (computer va mobile) you can see that it is just a weird glitch.
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  • meganraschkemeganraschke member
    @midge519 my family is being the worst with the guilt trips too! It's so annoying, I'd be nice to only have to say one time that we aren't loading up 2 dogs and a baby for 6 hours in the car for one day. Not to mention I'm nursing so that long isn't even practical!
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  • midge519midge519 member
    Squirtgun said:

    midge519 said:

    My twatwaffle this week is the person on another month board using my picture. I know super dumb but when I'm lurking other boards I get incredibly weirded out seeing my picture as someone elses avatar. I took this picture in my car of my stuffed cow. Get your own. In reality its such a dumb thing and its just my cow but its still super weird to come across

    Edit-Now trying to find it again I'm pretty sure they've changed it lol


    **lurker from n15. Had my LO oct 4, so I kind of belong over here too?**

    The bump sometimes has weird glitches where your picture shows up as someone else's avatar. It's happened to me and I've seen a few other people saying the same thing. Not sure why it happens, but if you check back on another device (computer va mobile) you can see that it is just a weird glitch.
    I didn't know that. Good to know lol. And welcome :-)
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  • midge519midge519 member
    meganraschke said:

    @midge519 my family is being the worst with the guilt trips too! It's so annoying, I'd be nice to only have to say one time that we aren't loading up 2 dogs and a baby for 6 hours in the car for one day. Not to mention I'm nursing so that long isn't even practical!

    That's crazy!! I wouldn't do that trip either!! Our trip would only be 20 minutes each way lol
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