1st Trimester

Just found out today I'm pregnant but I'm terrified..

jackieoicklejackieoickle member
edited December 2015 in 1st Trimester
I have a wonderful almost 2 year old boy, and thought I would be expecting my second child this coming March 2016, but unfortunately this past September I miscarried. I though I was 10 weeks along only to find out at my first ultrasound that the baby stoped growing at 5 weeks. today I took a test, I suspected I was pregnant due to 2 days of very light spotting a few days before my period was due, extreme hunger and sore breasts. So here we are again, I wish I could be happy and excited but I'm just scared and worrying that something is going to happen and I will miscarry again. I'm trying to stay positive but it's really hard. Anyone else newly pregnant after a loss? are these thoughts and feelings I'm having normal? 

Re: Just found out today I'm pregnant but I'm terrified..

  • Sounds pretty damn normal to me! Of course you are worried. Unfortunately only time will tell but I wish you luck and congratulations!
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  • Totally normal. There's a great PGAL board and you also may find other women on your BMB in the same boat who you can connect with.
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  • Completely normal. I suffered losses as well and am now just shy of 26 weeks. Hang in there. And, I suggest heading over to the Pregnant after a Loss board, the ladies there are all experiencing what you are and are very supportive.
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  • I had my first loss in april/may this year. We were trying since i ran the risk of fertility issues. Lately Iv been thinking that little baby would of been close to being born right now. Yeah not a good way to torture myself but I am happy to say that we kept trying and I am now 22+3 wks. Its been a bumpy road but things have been improving. I understand the fear. I didnt feel close to this pregnancy till I started feeling kicks. Hang in there!
  • We have a 2 year old as well and had a miscarriage in August. We found out we are pregnant again and due next August. I felt the same way you do! But as soon as I went to a couple of check ups and saw the baby a lot of the anxieties have passed. I still panic from time to time but I am just focused on a happy healthy pregnancy. My last pregnancy the baby stopped growing at 10 weeks and didn't know until 12. There was just no heartbeat. So, I completely know the fear and total awareness of what can happen. Just hang in there!
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