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Secondary IF
Mottes24
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Hi Ladies (Loss Mentioned)
Mottes24
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Hi all, finally decided it was time to make my introduction after lurking for the past several months.
I’ve been terrified to officially type the words, but here it is! I’m 26, DH is 27 and our DS is turning three this month. We have been TTC since September of 2013, and have had two successes, which ended in heartache, BFP #2 3/2014 MC at 4w6d and BFP #3 4/1/2015 MC at 9w5d. After my second MC I decided it was time to seek out answers. I was diagnosed with PCOS (DH is fine) and have gone through the usual tests. After my HSG and another month worth of ultrasounds, my GYN informed me that he was “very underwhelmed” (mid transvaginal! - WTF right?!) with what he saw; my uterus, egg development and test results. I switched to a different doctor in the practice and started clomid. After three cycles leaving us empty handed, we decided to take a break for the holidays, and to catch up on the ever growing pile of bills. I am trying to focus on my health and we are still trying the “old fashioned way” while I try to “patiently” wait to begin again in February. Let's be serious though, I should probably buy stock in ovulation/pregnancy tests...
I want to sincerely thank all of you ladies. While lurking, you have all helped me, emotionally and informatively, more than I can express. I’m glad that I have finally woman’ed up and made my intro, if I have to go through this, I am so thankful to be part of a group of woman as supportive as all of you! Sending well wishes to you all!
Re: Hi Ladies (Loss Mentioned)
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
Thanks for the welcome, and I am sorry to hear you went through that too...No one talks about it enough, I had no idea what to expect and to say that it is an unimaginably painful ordeal is the worst understatement.... My heart goes out to you.
He didn't really give me an answer other than "You have PCOS and these things happen...". To say he was a dick is an understatement. I had just moved to a new practice and he was my first experience with a male doctor, they wouldn't let me switch right away, but I have since found comfort in a partner of his.
It was a complete, natural MC and it took forever, but seemed to happen so quickly. I wish I had thought about testing, I was just not in the mindset at that time to look to anything past what was happening at that moment.