With my 1st, I purchased a Baby Bjorn, but barely used it. DS was squirmy and it felt so heavy...I really only used it when we went to the airport or something.
I'm torn with all the recommendations people give me now. Tula? Ergo? K'tan? What are your experiences/have your heard? Pros and cons? Thanks!
Re: Baby Carrier Recs
Do do you have a trade group you could join and try some out to see what you like?
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Tula for when they are older. I have an ergo and Tula. Ergo worked fine for when he was a baby. Tula was better for when he was older as he is a tall guy and would fling himself back sometimes.
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
That being said, if you don't use it for long trips idle bigger kids the straps are pretty cumbersome because I the padding, and something like a K'tan might be more suites to short use. It depends on your intentions for using them.
If you have a shop close to you I'd suggest going in and trying them on. We have an Itsy Bitsy Bums here and it's great for figuring out exactly what is best fit for you.
I don't use my Ergo much day-to-day, but it's great for longer outings (zoo, shopping, etc.) because it is so structured and because the pocket is great for wallet, keys, or other small items you want to keep handy. I still use it to back carry my 35-pound two-year-old if we're going to be walking for a long time and don't want to deal with the stroller, although most of the time she'd rather walk if she can. It does feel like a bit much for daily use, though. I'm thinking of getting a Mei Tai for this one.
I bought an Emeibaby carrier (another type of buckle carrier that's highly adjustable but fairly pricey) because it can be used from day 1 but is also good for toddlers as well, so I am using it now for my older child but will use it for baby when he/she comes. I believe Chimparoo Trek and I think some Beco carriers also have built-in infant inserts that aren't as bulky as the Ergo's.
A wrap is awesome for a teeny tiny little baby too! Just a bit of a higher learning curve. You can get a stretchy wrap like a Moby for cheap, especially if you look for them second-hand (mine cost me $30). But stretchy wraps aren't very supportive or comfortable once your baby's beyond 12 lbs or so. Woven wraps can be used on big kids and newborns alike but more challenging to learn and more expensive.
My recommendation, if at all possible, is to find a specialty baby store that will let you try on different carriers and find the one that feels most comfortable on your body. Or attend a babywearing class if you can find one in your area and try some different carriers that way. It's hard to know what you will like until you try them. I went to our local babywearing store expecting to buy a Lenny Lamb or Tula carrier and walked away with something entirely different because it just felt better on me.
Around 9 months old, we got an Ergo since long trips in the Solly started to become uncomfortable after about 30 or 45 minutes. He loves the Ergo as well, and it's very supportive and comfortable, even when I use it now while pregnant.
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I will say, KPs are crazy hard to get online at times and resale is stupid high. We were able to get all of ours online.
I really want to wear this baby. I think lugging around a car seat while keeping track of a three year old will be too much. I'm leaning heavily toward a mei tai carrier. And may just go ahead and buy one since they're only $25 at target. I also plan to go to a baby wearing international meeting after the holidays. Normally I'd think paying $150+ on a carrier is ridic but after looking at how much they are resale, I can totally justify it. I'd just have to convince hubby. Tulas are actually more expensive at resale price! What?!
I recommend watching YouTube videos. Actually seeing how the carrier straps on or whatnot gives you a much better idea of what you might like. Just watch out for people making videos that have NO CLUE what they're doing. Maybe look at the baby wearing basics before you watch videos.