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Just wanted to update you all...

colesmom33colesmom33 member
in June 2016 Moms
The inevitable has happened, we lost our third baby. We were expecting it, so although it's difficult, it'll be good for us to move on and start getting excited for our twins! The past months has been terrible! I have trouble thinking about my pregnancy and I haven't even been able to look at the ultrasounds. But I feel more at peace now, so I know this is the best thing.

I feel like lately I've done nothing but drive-by snark (especially at the ultrasound threads - ugh, those still drive me nuts!) But I'm ready to be excited again for these babies!! And really ready to join back into this community!! (Except maybe not the hdbd thread, I don't know if I'm ready for my chubby tummy on the Internet!
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  • dennyandleedennyandlee member
    Sorry to hear this but I'm glad you are feeling more at peace. Thoughts and prayers for you and yours!

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  • etr152517etr152517 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! Hugs to you during this difficult time. I'm glad that you feel you have some closure so you can focus on the exciting milestones to come!
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  • mrsschmitymrsschmity member
    So sorry to hear this :( But I too am glad you have been able to find peace. Here's to a healthy rest of your pregnancy!
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  • hockeyfan42hockeyfan42 member
    Sorry for your loss. I'm glad you have closure, hope everything goes well for you the rest of the way!
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  • VikingGirl12VikingGirl12 member
    I'm so sorry to hear this. Ill be praying for you and those sweet twins.
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    So sorry to hear about your loss :( ❤️ Praying for you & your family!
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  • DeePaddy24DeePaddy24 member
    I've been thinking of you (not creepy, I swear) & wondering how everything was going. I'm so sorry for your loss, but happy that you're at peace. I hope the remainder of your pregnancy with your twins is smooth sailing. 
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  • WinniethePoohsPantsWinniethePoohsPants member
    Sorry for your loss, but glad to hear your twins are doing well!
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  • fishwife799fishwife799 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. But I am also glad you are at peace and can move forward.


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  • colesmom33colesmom33 member
    You are all so kind!! It's so nice to have a place to open up to with such great people! Since we knew this was coming, we only told close friends and family. So all your support right now means the world!
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  • HuskerfanzHuskerfanz member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  :(
    DS 9/2/13 was a BFP from an IUI!
    Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!

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  • MDKC14MDKC14 member
    Very sorry to hear this but it is great to hear that you're able to focus on the twins. I hope that the peace continues to surround you throughout the rest of your pregnancy!
    Married: 08/04/13
    DS: 11/25/14
    DD: 06/25/16
    EDD: 12/05/18


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  • mar101483mar101483 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! Hugs. I hope you are able to find peace and your twins are healthy.
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  • Wyattnash00Wyattnash00 member
    So sorry for your loss:( you have a great attitude and I'm so excited for you and your twin babies!
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  • HBamama2BHBamama2B member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you are looking forward to the twins and embracing all the feelings as they come. I admire and appreciate your honesty. Hopes and prayers for a H&H rest of your pregnancy and healthy LOs for you. Hugs.
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  • violetmarie61516violetmarie61516 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I've been thinking of you a lot and hoping you were doing okay.  I am glad you are at peace even though I'm sure you're still grieving.  I hope the remainder of your pregnancy you can enjoy!
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  • crdocrdo member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I have been wondering about how you were doing, and hoped all had been well. I'm glad you've found peace, and that your twins are doing well!
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  • Trinirican3ondwayTrinirican3ondway member
    I am sorry for your loss but I'm happy for you that you can  look forward to the rest of your pregnancy with such a positive attitude. 



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  • CourtJackCourtJack member
    Aw :( I'm sorry for your loss. But you are amazing in your outlook! :) thinking of you and your family. Creeper hugs!!
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  • totsaboundingtotsabounding member
    edited December 2015
    Very sorry to hear this. Even though it was expected, I know it can't be easy.  It seems like you're in a good place, emotionally, with it all... I just want to put it out there that it's okay, though, to have your ups and downs.  We'll be here if you need to vent.  Creepy internet hugs to you!

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  • HighFive16HighFive16 member
    Sorry for your loss and wishing you a healthy remainder of your pregnancy with your little twins. Welcome back and glad you could find some peace.
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  • HeartLikeMine3HeartLikeMine3 member
    Sorry for your loss I know it must have been so hard not knowing and being in limbo. Prayers for you!!
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  • JonesBaby0624JonesBaby0624 member
    So sorry to hear. I'm so happy you have your twins!
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  • NicknShanNicknShan member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs to you. 
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    DS #1: Born September 29, 2013
    Baby #2: Due June 3, 2016

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  • WSU2015WSU2015 member
    I am happy that you are ready to focus on the twins and enjoy your pregnancy! Can't wait to see that twin baby bump when you do decide to join in on HDBD. I'm sorry for your loss keep your head up Mama!
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  • ice_queen91ice_queen91 member
    I know how hard that can be. I lost my daughter's twin. Praying for you and your twins to have a happy healthy pregnancy for the rest of the time!
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  • theatremandytheatremandy member
    So sorry about your loss. It's so hard to be excited (and not terrified), when you are grieving as well. I'm so happy to hear the remaining twins are doing well. Fingers crossed for as uneventful a twin pregnancy as you can have.
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  • june2016babyjune2016baby member
    I have been wondering about your babies and how you're doing. Sorry for your loss. I am glad that you are able to move forward and enjoy your precious twins.
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  • nicolesmith0624nicolesmith0624 member
    I'm so sorry! Loss is never easy, but I hope you're able to process it and find peace. May the rest of your pregnancy continue with health and happiness!
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  • catherinekatecatherinekate member
    So very sorry about your loss. Best wishes for a safe and healthy pregnancy with your twins.
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  • mrsb8244mrsb8244 member
    I'm sorry to hear about baby 3. I'm happy you are back on the thread I was thinking about you and your babies! Glad to hear you have peace now and can be excited about babies 1&2 :)
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  • Atlast111Atlast111 member
    Sorry to hear this. I wish you and the twins a very happy and healthy pregnancy going forward! :)
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  • lm45678lm45678 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Kudos to you on being so positive... Your twins will be lucky to have such a wonderful mother!!
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  • ladybugmomma8ladybugmomma8 member
    So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and s healthy pregnancy for your twins.
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  • augbride87augbride87 member
    I am so sorry for your loss!  Thoughts and prayers with you and your family!
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  • MillerMama13MillerMama13 member
    So sorry for your loss. I was so hoping the LO would pull through for you guys. Very happy that you are able to find peace and look forward to the future with your twins!
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  • adiaz132003adiaz132003 member
    So sorry for your loss. I'm happy you are able to center yourself and focus on the two little love bundles you have and are gonna be able to enjoy being pregnant. I'm sending lots of love your way.
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  • mkemommymkemommy member
    I'm very sorry to hear about baby #3.  All the hugs to you, Momma.  
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  • SMLmomSMLmom member
    I'm sorry for your loss but your attitude is amazing.  Way to stay positive (though of course grief is normal and part of the process).  Glad you can re-join us :)
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  • tripledaggerWed95976tripledaggerWed95976 member
    Im so sorry for your loss, and I'm very happy to hear your twins are there and in great health
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