I am not sure if this discussion has already been created. I went through trying to find on related, but had no success in finding one.
I had my first son 10 years ago, was induced dilated within 3 hours and was sent in for an emergency c section as he was not coming and his heart rate was dropping. Everything was good, except they said the umbilical cord was wrapped around his leg several time and was not allowing him to come.
Now I am wanting to have a normal pregnancy, experience the water breaking and labor so to speak, but I am skeptical of doing a VBAC. So i am trying to see if there are others that have been successful. I have been doing research and reading article, but thought I would see with other mothers on this website. Also since i had a c section, i am wanting to know how painful it truly is to give birth vaginally. I do not do well with pain, the c section was not that bad in my opinion, but recovery time for a vaginal birth is so much quicker, plus you get to be with your baby right away and not have to wait. So if some of you dont mind letting me have your stories or opinions that would be great!
Thanks!
Re: VBAC or C- Section
#1 was c/s due to breech position; recovery was hellish
#2 was failed VBAC (12 hours of labor + 2 hours of pushing) turned c/s (induced with pit at 40 weeks due to pre-eclampsia), LO's heartrate kept dropping and was lost entirely for a few minutes; recovery was easy--definitely recommend an abdominal binder
#3 was a successful VBA2C!!! I was not induced this time, went into labor at 38+5 and had an easy deliver (6 hours total labor time including 30 min of pushing). I did have an episiotomy but the recovery was so much better than even my easy breezy c/s recovery. If you do have the option and a supportive OB I do recommend it.
I think if you go in hopeful but knowing that it might not work out, it might be easier to handle, kwim?
Good luck.
Based on your first pregnancy, it doesn't sound like there'd be any reason you can't attempt a VBAC assuming you're a good candidate in all other areas. I say go for it!
I'm hoping for a vbac, as my first was a csection due to breech position. I'm preparing myself for either outcome though, in case this one is also breech, or on case a vbac just doesn't work for me.
Also, ask around to see if there in an OB that is known for vbacs. There was an OB were I used to work who wold evaluate women who wanted a vbac and give his opinion of their success in a percentage form!
Mama to Three Girls:
Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor
and our 37weeker born May 9th, 2016!
Also, I seemed to recover a lot faster than my friends who had a vaginal birth. So, just in case you need to go with c/s keep in mind you may be able to heal faster with what they may have available now.
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)