F-in KIDNEY STONES.... Long story short went in for what I thought was a UTI. Turns out there's no white blood cells in my urine, just lots of red blood cells. Which is odd. So after making sure baby and I were fine I got sent home with a fancy pee strainer. Sure enough about 6 hours after coming home kidney stone passes. So now I get to call in today and see if they want me to come drop off the little f*cker and see if I need to do an ultrasound to see if there are more in there (Since passing the stone blood has gone down, but I've still got tiny little granular bits coming out). Can pregnancy just not right now... Silly kidney's being poorly placed so they get squished during pregnancy.
@sarahbeara25 I'm so sorry. I know how this feels! I ended up getting admitted to the OB ward with kidney stones, and they are NOT fun. On the bright side, the nurses told me that if I could handle that pain (which, honestly, what was I gonna do?) then I would be able to handle labor. Their justification being that kidney stone pain is constant, and labor pains come and go.
I don't know if that's true or not, but I'm sure the other patients thought I was delivering an elephant or an alien or something. I was not quiet, by any stretch of the imagination. I was also vomiting and sweating profusely. They gave me norco, which didn't touch the pain, and ended up giving me 2 doses of morphine before I had any relief.
I hope you don't end up paranoid like I did. I haven't had any more, but any bladder/back discomfort, I immediately assume the worst. Keep drinking that water!
People asking me if I'm scared of giving birth!!! "No actually, it sounds like a really chill time pushing A SCREAMING WATERMELON OUT OF MY VAGINA AND POTENTIALLY TEARING IT OPEN. Why, should I be scared?" Aahhhh had to let it out. I hate that question more than I hate people asking me how I'm feeling every 5 minutes.
I'm going to freak out if my coworker doesn't stop humming Christmas songs. She's annoying without humming (my biggest pet peeve) so she is on every last nerve I have!!! Except my sciatic nerve of course, baby has that one covered.
Did I mention I might be a little irritable today?
I am annoyed with this guy in our apartment building. He keeps asking us if we know this guy that is supposed to come fix his wifi. Dude...we have had this discussion like 5 times already and no. We live here for crying out loud..like we are going into our apartment when we were asked that crap. He even asked my SO if he was the wifi guy...smh...
They forgot me at my Dr. appt this morning. The wait in the waiting room was longer than usual, and then I finally got to an exam room. I sat in that room for over an hour before the nurse came in and apologized for forgetting me. She's lucky I like them.
They forgot me at my Dr. appt this morning. The wait in the waiting room was longer than usual, and then I finally got to an exam room. I sat in that room for over an hour before the nurse came in and apologized for forgetting me. She's lucky I like them.
That is a fear of mine!! To be forgotten and locked in a doctor office. Although the peace and quiet would be helpful! I actually fell asleep waiting in the room at my last appt.
Stupid heartburn has returned with a vengeance in the third trimester and today I'm having a fun combo of Braxton hicks and heartburn at the same time. It is making my mood at work... less than pleasant.
I have a student who comes into my classroom to eat lunch everyday. That's not the part I'm complaining about though....the part that sucks is that she eats her nachos WITH HER MOUTH OPEN every. friggin'. day. I have never heard anyone smack their food the way this girls does. So I just turn my music up and try to ignore it. I want to call her on it...but how do you tell a 17-year-old girl that she should close her mouth to chew? I feel like I'd embarrass her beyond belief, and hurt her fragile ego. Teenagers are sensitive creatures. So I get to sit here and cringe while she plows and crunches her way through her plate of nachos.
I'm tired of feeling completely helpless. My sciatic nerve has been so incredibly painful that I've literally had to have SO help me walk through the house. His work schedule is completely opposite of anything useful... I'm on my own with DS all day. I'm terrified of lifting him because my leg goes out from under me. Things like grocery shopping? I refuse to do alone because I can't walk long without my leg going out from under me. So, when my parents decide to bail on plans with me (like today), we end up eating scrambled eggs for breakfast, lunch, and dinner because that's all I've got in the house at the moment...
I have a student who comes into my classroom to eat lunch everyday. That's not the part I'm complaining about though....the part that sucks is that she eats her nachos WITH HER MOUTH OPEN every. friggin'. day. I have never heard anyone smack their food the way this girls does. So I just turn my music up and try to ignore it. I want to call her on it...but how do you tell a 17-year-old girl that she should close her mouth to chew? I feel like I'd embarrass her beyond belief, and hurt her fragile ego. Teenagers are sensitive creatures. So I get to sit here and cringe while she plows and crunches her way through her plate of nachos.
Nope nope nope. I have what's called misophonia which is an actual psychological disorder meaning "hatred of sound". I can't listen to any kind of chewing, swallowing, loud breathing, snoring, etc. (anything you hear on a daily basis). That girl would piss me off, I don't care how sweet she may be.
Also, for my Monday bitchfest, I need to talk about how I cried for half the morning cause I realized the doctor I'm supposed to see on Thursday is the one I absolutely can't stand cause she's super old and has been doing her job way too long so she's rough and is just desensitized to everything. She gives me anxiety just being in the room with her. So I called and somehow managed through my tears (poor receptionist) to get my appointment changed. Guarantee you this is the doctor that will be on duty when I go to deliver. GUARANTEE YOU.
They forgot me at my Dr. appt this morning. The wait in the waiting room was longer than usual, and then I finally got to an exam room. I sat in that room for over an hour before the nurse came in and apologized for forgetting me. She's lucky I like them.
That is a fear of mine!! To be forgotten and locked in a doctor office. Although the peace and quiet would be helpful! I actually fell asleep waiting in the room at my last appt.
I played on my phone and enjoyed the extended break from my toddler. SO had food waiting for me when I got home, so it worked out alright.
I need to add another. My dog. He's driving me batshit crazy. He insists on following me and laying at my feet licking himself. Everywhere I go it's SLURP SLURP SLURP! For hours! I hate that sound even in the best of circumstances, but today it makes me want to chop his parts off and drown a bag of kittens.
I feel se huge. Like i literally have a watermelon in my stomach. And today my belly feels ridiculously heavy. I feel like I can swing my belly around and hit someone with it. Went for a walk this morning and I was so slow. I used to be a runner and now I'm struggling to walk 2 miles with all this weight.
My sister ALWAYS expects me to bring her things. Ice cream Cake Pizza Lunch Etc Usually I'm in the area or I'm on the way to her house anyway so I don't mind .... Not to mention I watched her dogs every week from October-December for free. Going out of my way to her house.
Today, I was craving cake from publix (local grocery store I dunno how common they are) So I texted her all corny like and said I had a dream last night you brought me cake.. You should make my dreams come true ;-)
Then all of a sudden I got jokes. But I go out of my way to bring her things because if I don't it's "ugh no one in the family cares about me or loves me" etc. She refuses to come to my house to bring me anything - even knowing my mom doesn't want me going out by myself.
So I waited, and decided it was worth risking it... I drove the 15mins to publix ( which is 2 mins from my sisters house) and walked in.... They had no cake.... What am I supposed to do with my life?! I walked up to the bakery counter.... The lady asked me what I needed "Cake..." Her - "if I have any it'll be frozen" Me- "as long as it's cake it's fine I can thaw it"
I got my cake... I drove 15mins in the dark rainy night for cake.
No thanks to my sister I'm not bringing her anything ever. Rude.
@GAgirlinSDakota And @scornwell717 Yup. All day and night. Both of these damn dogs... and if they aren't licking themselves, they are licking each other! So gross. I will wake from a dead sleep to scream across the bedroom to knock it off... SO sleeps through the dogs licking and my screaming. Unfair.
My five year old is driving me nuts. The past few days she has literally refused to listen. Seriously. I'll tell her something and she will say "no." Or that she doesn't have to do what I say. She will only listen to her dad and even then he has to sound mean. I feel like she is gonna send me into labor just from arguing with her.
Contractions or as I like to call them...contraptions.
I know I am having them and they do hurt, but I don't want to go in to L&D since I have an appointment to have my weekly ultrasound and to harass my OB. However they have kinda gotten worse. I'm hoping I just need some Tylenol and then I can go to bed!
Ok, a real bitchfest Because my original was me being a whiny little bitch.
I'm super cranky/emotional today. Everything either pisses me off or I want to cry... I mean everything. Tv shows Conversations with SO .. Cake The cookie I had earlier was too hard. I thought this was first trimester bull crap.. Thought the emotional crap was over?
Can this baby just come out already?! I've already almost peed myself today.. I've got a personal goal to make it the whole pregnancy without full on peeing myself. (I've got leaks - but I'm accepting that)
I have a student who comes into my classroom to eat lunch everyday. That's not the part I'm complaining about though....the part that sucks is that she eats her nachos WITH HER MOUTH OPEN every. friggin'. day. I have never heard anyone smack their food the way this girls does. So I just turn my music up and try to ignore it. I want to call her on it...but how do you tell a 17-year-old girl that she should close her mouth to chew? I feel like I'd embarrass her beyond belief, and hurt her fragile ego. Teenagers are sensitive creatures. So I get to sit here and cringe while she plows and crunches her way through her plate of nachos.
Nope nope nope. I have what's called misophonia which is an actual psychological disorder meaning "hatred of sound". I can't listen to any kind of chewing, swallowing, loud breathing, snoring, etc. (anything you hear on a daily basis). That girl would piss me off, I don't care how sweet she may be.
Also, for my Monday bitchfest, I need to talk about how I cried for half the morning cause I realized the doctor I'm supposed to see on Thursday is the one I absolutely can't stand cause she's super old and has been doing her job way too long so she's rough and is just desensitized to everything. She gives me anxiety just being in the room with her. So I called and somehow managed through my tears (poor receptionist) to get my appointment changed. Guarantee you this is the doctor that will be on duty when I go to deliver. GUARANTEE YOU.
The misophobia. I have it. The sound of smacking makes me physically ill. Also it is KNOWN within my family that if you audibly burp, it legitimately makes me irrationally angry. Like the sound of a burp will ruin my day and my family and in laws all walk on egg shells about it because I get all red and scary lookin. Which is just WONDERFUL because I'm having a BOY. I am not looking forward to the day when fart noises and burping becomes something funny.
@maddisonwallace yup that sounds like classic misophonia to me! My family has to walk on eggshells around me too. It sounds terrible but I have trouble eating dinner with others unless the tv or music is on (loudly). As for your son, maybe you'll be able to train him not to burp loudly or he'll be punished that's what I plan on doing with my daughter in terms of chewing with her dang mouth shut! But yeah, what we have is an actual diagnosable disorder. It makes me feel better to know that it's common enough to actually be researched by doctors!
Re: Monday Bitchfest
Did I mention I might be a little irritable today?
They forgot me at my Dr. appt this morning. The wait in the waiting room was longer than usual, and then I finally got to an exam room. I sat in that room for over an hour before the nurse came in and apologized for forgetting me. She's lucky I like them.
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
Also, for my Monday bitchfest, I need to talk about how I cried for half the morning cause I realized the doctor I'm supposed to see on Thursday is the one I absolutely can't stand cause she's super old and has been doing her job way too long so she's rough and is just desensitized to everything. She gives me anxiety just being in the room with her. So I called and somehow managed through my tears (poor receptionist) to get my appointment changed.
Guarantee you this is the doctor that will be on duty when I go to deliver. GUARANTEE YOU.
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
My sister ALWAYS expects me to bring her things.
Ice cream
Cake
Pizza
Lunch
Etc
Usually I'm in the area or I'm on the way to her house anyway so I don't mind .... Not to mention I watched her dogs every week from October-December for free. Going out of my way to her house.
Today, I was craving cake from publix (local grocery store I dunno how common they are)
So I texted her all corny like and said
I had a dream last night you brought me cake.. You should make my dreams come true ;-)
Then all of a sudden I got jokes.
But I go out of my way to bring her things because if I don't it's "ugh no one in the family cares about me or loves me" etc.
She refuses to come to my house to bring me anything - even knowing my mom doesn't want me going out by myself.
So I waited, and decided it was worth risking it... I drove the 15mins to publix ( which is 2 mins from my sisters house) and walked in.... They had no cake....
What am I supposed to do with my life?!
I walked up to the bakery counter....
The lady asked me what I needed
"Cake..."
Her - "if I have any it'll be frozen"
Me- "as long as it's cake it's fine I can thaw it"
I got my cake...
I drove 15mins in the dark rainy night for cake.
No thanks to my sister
I'm not bringing her anything ever.
Rude.
OMG! I did all of those things too!!!! Until about march then I marked off number 5 and kept going....
I'm assuming #2 is drinking more water....
Because my original was me being a whiny little bitch.
I'm super cranky/emotional today.
Everything either pisses me off or I want to cry... I mean everything.
Tv shows
Conversations with SO
.. Cake
The cookie I had earlier was too hard.
I thought this was first trimester bull crap.. Thought the emotional crap was over?
Can this baby just come out already?!
I've already almost peed myself today..
I've got a personal goal to make it the whole pregnancy without full on peeing myself. (I've got leaks - but I'm accepting that)
But yeah, what we have is an actual diagnosable disorder. It makes me feel better to know that it's common enough to actually be researched by doctors!