I have a friend who has to out do everything you ever talk about. I was complaining about my pregnancy headaches this weekend and now she has been going on about what horrible headaches she has been having. Then she wants to tell me the conversations she has had with people about her headaches. She said...he said...the I was like....then she told me. OMG!!! I do not give a fack about your stupid conversations with people about headaches that probably do not even exist!!!! I am sorry I am getting attention because I am pregnant. Wait until the baby gets here...people will not give a sh*t about your stupid headaches!! She is being a total twatwaffle!!
Can my twatwaffle be my biggest pet peeve this week?!! Why the fu?! Do people feel the need to post the exact same picture and cutesie sayings with hashtags on both Facebook and Instagram?!! I think it's an age thing and I'm too old to care, it just screams 'I need attention!'
Mine today...I can't decide if it should be the HR lady I spoke to on the phone the other day for a different potential job, or society.
Every time a potential employer asks me about my education and what kind of degree I have I cringe - because I don't have a degree. I received a voicemail today from the HR lady I was working with last week on a job. She called to tell me that while my experience and career background are outstanding and make me a very marketable candidate, that they could not offer me the job because their office only lets them hire individuals with a degree. For the exact same position that I have been doing for years.
Let me follow up with that by saying I 110% believe in the importance of post-secondary education and urge anyone to pursue a college degree. With that said, I am one of those people who went to college for a year, tried to finish my Associate's degree on and off over the next 2 years, but got caught up in the workforce before ever completing it. Do I wish I would have finished? Of course. However, the experience I've gained in my career has been worth it.
When I hear about employers completely negating any professional work experience just because one does not have a degree, it is frustrating. Now if it was a doctor or some other field that requires medical knowledge or something along those lines, that is a different story. I'm in Project Management though. It isn't life or death. I know what I'm doing, and my experience proves that. Argghh.
Soooo frustrating @mrsschmity. Agree certain fields need further education but I'm a full believer that experience in the 'real world' can be better then a college degree. I went to a small liberal arts college, no idea what I wanted to do, though it was the best experience and I have the best friends in the world, the education was sub-par for the loans I'm still paying back. Anyway, my point is you should've stuck ur hand through the phone and tell that Hr bitch to pull it together:)
My sinuses and their inability to stay healthy and infection free. Currently laying in bed with a massive headache and a heating pad on my neck.
Also, Facebook. I'm sick of racist ignorant stuff being posted and "liked" constantly. And the amount of useless crap on it. I decided its a waste of my time and energy and deleted the app off my phone.
@arteduc8 - I've "hidden" so many people on facebook, I only get updates from about 5 people and I sometimes wonder what happened to everybody. And then I remember and I cringe.
@Kballew10 I hear you! I started muting people and just gave up. I decided I'd rather spend my time reading up on baby stuff and what to expect than sifting through stupidness, lol.
Today's twatwaffle is either my new car... or DH's bosses nosey Nellie wife, I can't decide. We bought a new car on Friday, it stayed in the garage ALL weekend because we were bums, and I have only been driving it since 8 this morning, but somehow DH's bosses wife found about our new car and called my MIL to ask if I was pregnant, and she told her yes, but that it was a secret. Now half of our tiny town knows before almost all of our family! And we had planned to announce this Thursday. Thunder stolen. Ugh.
Oh boy, @gray51015. Boss' wife is a total twatwaffle. People can be such thoughtless a-holes and poke their noses where they don't belong. Who does that?! I'm so sorry your news was leaked....ugh.
My acne is a twatwaffle. Where the f is my angel glow pregnancy skin? Hmph.
Today's twatwaffle is either my new car... or DH's bosses nosey Nellie wife, I can't decide. We bought a new car on Friday, it stayed in the garage ALL weekend because we were bums, and I have only been driving it since 8 this morning, but somehow DH's bosses wife found about our new car and called my MIL to ask if I was pregnant, and she told her yes, but that it was a secret. Now half of our tiny town knows before almost all of our family! And we had planned to announce this Thursday. Thunder stolen. Ugh.
UGH! That's so frustrating! The same thing (obviously a different scenario), happened to us. DH's whole family foudn out before we got to announce. I was so angry. I feel you.
My twatwaffle from Saturday is my friend. I'm not a particularly social person and, especially since having kids, I don't get out much or keep in touch with a lot of people. So, a friend (doesn't have kids) who I haven't spent time with in awhile invited me to be her date for her company holiday party on Saturday. I convinced myself it would be fun to just get out without the kids and have some girl time, even though I'm not even going to my own holiday party since I can't drink or have much fun since I get so tired early.
To make a long story short, she was supposed to pick me up at 6, but didn't show up until after 7 and the party was over an hour away. By the time we got there, it was basically my usual bedtime lol. I didn't want to be a buzz kill or anything, so I sucked it up and stayed until the party ended at 11, while hinting at my exhaustion. Then she insists that she has to "make an appearance" at the after party in the penthouse suite of the hotel. COME ON! You have worked there a few months and like 25 people went to the "after party," nobody is going to expect you to show up for anything! Finally she agreed to leave after 15 minutes of awkwardness and I got home around 1 am, feeling incredibly grumpy about the whole thing. Thankfully DH took care of the kids for a bit the next day so I could sleep until like 8 am.
Ugh mine is definately one of my coworkers (pretty sure that's always my answer).
So me and DH haven't had the best year this past year and she knows that. We are working on things but this (unplanned) pregnancy seems to have thrown things off.
So today coworker asks me how DH has been (he's not really happy about the pregnancy). I have her a run down and used that time to do some complaining about how he doesn't come to bed until after 3am and a bunch of other stuff. Stuff that definitely bothers me but not the end if the world. I understand he's struggling with the reality of this so I'm giving him a lot of leeway.
Anyways coworker responds by telling me that me and DH should just split up and spend time apart. She said that clearly I can't handle his behavior and its bad for me to be stressed. Pretty sure I'm pregnant and notching and complaining is allowed without having to split up from my husband! Crazy woman.....
Today's is my mother. She does not take no for an answer and I'm of the mind that if "no" is a complete sentence and doesn't need any further explanation as to why. So we do not click in that area, or any really.
Anyway. She has been PESTERING me about taking Christmas pictures for her Christmas card. She wanted me to go out and buy new outfits and I told her from the get go that I really didn't want to do them, so if she insisted, then she needed to buy what she wanted me and DH to wear. I have 5 siblings (technically 7, but 2 aren't hers so) and I'm the oldest with the youngest being 11 so I understand why she wants to still do the cutesy Christmas cards with matching outfits to send to her friends/family. However, I don't get why I have to be in them. I'm 24, married, on my own with my own child on the way. Not to mention that DH and I send out our own cards every year.
I don't have a problem with taking family pictures. I love my parents and my siblings but I really don't feel I should be on her Christmas card anymore so I've been trying to just "be busy" on the nights she wants to take pictures hoping she'll just cave and take one with my 4 siblings that still live with her but no. Today she text me that she wants to take them at 9:30 on Thursday night when I haven't been able to stay up far past 8:00 for a good two months now and I have to get up early to travel to my brother's wedding 4 hours away the next morning. So I had to finally straight up tell her no, and that I didn't want to be on the card and that she really needed to accept that I was grown up and have to start separating doing this "traditional family stuff" with my siblings and start doing them with my own little family. And now, of course, I'm getting bashed for being selfish and not caring about my family and I'm going to "end up alone like my father." (They're separated).
So I don't know. Maybe I'm really the twatwaffle here, because I know it's so much easier to just go along and appease my mom, but I just feel like if I do that, I'll spend my whole life doing that (which truthfully, I have up to this point) and end up unhappy and walking on eggshells like my mom and my aunts are when they're around my grandma and that's not what I want... or maybe I'm just hormonal. Who knows.
And add my insurance carrier to the list today....
Just got a letter that my prescription for Metanx will no longer be covered because it's a "medical food" not approved by the FDA, but the FDA didn't regulate vitamins. I need this to keep my homocystiene in check from MTHFR so that I don't get blood clots among many other issues.
Are you f#$%&ing kidding me?!?! I've been taking this prescribed vitamin for over 3 years and my insurance hascovered it. And now they pull the rug out? I don't know what I'll do now. We're talking $90+ a month without insurance. So pissed!
My twatwaffle was my mother yesterday. She and my MIL switch back and forth watching DS while DH and I work. I always feel bad getting frustrated with them since it's free childcare... My mom planned on watching DS like she always does on Mondays. She texts me at 1AM on Monday telling me she can't. I don't see the text until 7AM and don't have time to figure out childcare, so I have to skip work and lose 9 hours from my pay check. Ugh.
The custodian that cleans my classroom. We usually have a really good relationship and chat everyday when she comes in to clean after school, but she's been such a freaking twatwaffle lately I can no longer be chatty with her. She keeps telling me "you need a girl" "when's that girl coming" "levi needs a sister" "you're going to be so disappointed if it's a boy" "you better have a girl". And today? "How's that baby girl doing?" Stop it.
My TW for the day is my mom, who is always "trimming" my 3 year old daughter's bangs (read: making them look like Janeane Garofalo's bangs in Reality Bites). She watches her during sessions with clients, as well as pretty much any other time I ask her to, and I'm grateful...but I wish she would stop cutting her hair! And yes, I've talked to her about it.
Taxes. Taxes are my twatwaffle. I've been withholding extra money each pay to cover a contract job where I work, but I am starting to realize that maybe I didn't withhold enough and now I am worried about what my tax bill will look like in a few months and what kind of penalty I'll have to pay. Plus I'm pissed that I have to file married but separate in order to qualify for earned income repayments on my student loans in order to makethe public service repayment plan I am under worth it. I can't believe how many tax credits we lose because I can't claim my husband's income or my student loan repayments would be RIDICULOUS. I don't understand why he should be responsible for paying them anyway. We weren't even together when I took them out.
Today's twatwaffles are the kids I nanny for. Today the boy decided to lock himself in the bathroom for half an hour after school then for snack he had a granola bar and a salad and complained he wanted more snacks but refused to actually pick something out (his way of stalling to get out of doing homework). I finally put my foot down and said no more snacks until you do your homework. He then refused to do his homework at all and threw a full on toddler temper tantrum (he's almost nine!). We went to piano lessons. After piano he finally caved and did the stupid homework. But good grief!
And the girl keeps poking my stomach and shouting "ducky!" (They think my ultrasound looked like a duck) even though I have repeatedly told her to stop.
These kids have zero boundaries and their parents do not discipline them at all. Which often makes my job damn near impossible. How can I get them to do anything when there are zero consequences if they don't do what they're told? So frustrating.
Mine is my all day sickness. I was doing super awesome for like a week and now I'm back to being attached to my barf bowel because I can't even make it to the bathroom. Don't get me wrong I'll do whatever it takes for a healthy baby but that week was nice.
This weeks Twatwaffle Tuesday award goes to the skating parents who NOW realize that their kid needs a freaking costume for the Christmas Show thats THIS SATURDAY!!!!!! No, I cannot make your daughter a dress with a million cut outs and 20k rhinestones on it. Why not? Because 1) I don't work that fast, 2) thats literally in 4 days, 3) your design requires materials I have to order from NYC, and 4) you can't pay me enough to get it done in 4 days. Go buy your 5 year old a cheap dress from the ProShop and throw some stones on it.
It amazes me how clueless some of my parents are. They think that I'm this magic sewing elf or something, and that a snap of the fingers, I can have any dress completed the next day. Blah.
@VikingGirl12 - getting them to sit down and do homework is a daily struggle. Yesterday was just particularly bad. What really pisses me off is if they want to go outside and play with friends they get it done in like 15 minutes but on days when they have stuff like piano lessons they take for freaking ever. More than anything I'm frustrated with the lack of consequences for when they don't listen. I am literally at a point where I'm like my job is basically making sure they don't get hit by a car or set anything on fire because nothing else I say or do matters.
@vulpini I feel your pain! I caved after 3 days miserably sick and 2 days out of work and went to the doctor for meds for my sinus infection. He gave me amox and said it's safe for pregnancy. My ob approved it too saying, "why suffer?" Target care of yourself. Sinus infections are huge twatwaffles!
@vulpini I feel your pain! I caved after 3 days miserably sick and 2 days out of work and went to the doctor for meds for my sinus infection. He gave me amox and said it's safe for pregnancy. My ob approved it too saying, "why suffer?" Target care of yourself. Sinus infections are huge twatwaffles!
I started on amox yesterday and today was very slightly better. I hope I can get a decent night of sleep soon.
Re: Twatwaffle Tuesday
EDD: 06/25/2006 M/C: 11/03/2005
EDD: 04/08/2012 M/C: 09/03/2011
EDD: 12/27/2012 Born Sleeping: 07/19/2012
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EDD: 07/01/2016 Born sleeping: 03/02/2016
Every time a potential employer asks me about my education and what kind of degree I have I cringe - because I don't have a degree. I received a voicemail today from the HR lady I was working with last week on a job. She called to tell me that while my experience and career background are outstanding and make me a very marketable candidate, that they could not offer me the job because their office only lets them hire individuals with a degree. For the exact same position that I have been doing for years.
Let me follow up with that by saying I 110% believe in the importance of post-secondary education and urge anyone to pursue a college degree. With that said, I am one of those people who went to college for a year, tried to finish my Associate's degree on and off over the next 2 years, but got caught up in the workforce before ever completing it. Do I wish I would have finished? Of course. However, the experience I've gained in my career has been worth it.
When I hear about employers completely negating any professional work experience just because one does not have a degree, it is frustrating. Now if it was a doctor or some other field that requires medical knowledge or something along those lines, that is a different story. I'm in Project Management though. It isn't life or death. I know what I'm doing, and my experience proves that. Argghh.
Also, Facebook. I'm sick of racist ignorant stuff being posted and "liked" constantly. And the amount of useless crap on it. I decided its a waste of my time and energy and deleted the app off my phone.
Today's twatwaffle is either my new car... or DH's bosses nosey Nellie wife, I can't decide. We bought a new car on Friday, it stayed in the garage ALL weekend because we were bums, and I have only been driving it since 8 this morning, but somehow DH's bosses wife found about our new car and called my MIL to ask if I was pregnant, and she told her yes, but that it was a secret. Now half of our tiny town knows before almost all of our family! And we had planned to announce this Thursday. Thunder stolen. Ugh.
My acne is a twatwaffle. Where the f is my angel glow pregnancy skin? Hmph.
ETA: Congrats on the new car!
Me: 26 | DH: 27
To make a long story short, she was supposed to pick me up at 6, but didn't show up until after 7 and the party was over an hour away. By the time we got there, it was basically my usual bedtime lol. I didn't want to be a buzz kill or anything, so I sucked it up and stayed until the party ended at 11, while hinting at my exhaustion. Then she insists that she has to "make an appearance" at the after party in the penthouse suite of the hotel. COME ON! You have worked there a few months and like 25 people went to the "after party," nobody is going to expect you to show up for anything! Finally she agreed to leave after 15 minutes of awkwardness and I got home around 1 am, feeling incredibly grumpy about the whole thing. Thankfully DH took care of the kids for a bit the next day so I could sleep until like 8 am.
DS2 5-18-2014
DD1 EDD 6-21-2016
So me and DH haven't had the best year this past year and she knows that. We are working on things but this (unplanned) pregnancy seems to have thrown things off.
So today coworker asks me how DH has been (he's not really happy about the pregnancy). I have her a run down and used that time to do some complaining about how he doesn't come to bed until after 3am and a bunch of other stuff. Stuff that definitely bothers me but not the end if the world. I understand he's struggling with the reality of this so I'm giving him a lot of leeway.
Anyways coworker responds by telling me that me and DH should just split up and spend time apart. She said that clearly I can't handle his behavior and its bad for me to be stressed. Pretty sure I'm pregnant and notching and complaining is allowed without having to split up from my husband! Crazy woman.....
Anyway. She has been PESTERING me about taking Christmas pictures for her Christmas card. She wanted me to go out and buy new outfits and I told her from the get go that I really didn't want to do them, so if she insisted, then she needed to buy what she wanted me and DH to wear. I have 5 siblings (technically 7, but 2 aren't hers so) and I'm the oldest with the youngest being 11 so I understand why she wants to still do the cutesy Christmas cards with matching outfits to send to her friends/family. However, I don't get why I have to be in them. I'm 24, married, on my own with my own child on the way. Not to mention that DH and I send out our own cards every year.
So I don't know. Maybe I'm really the twatwaffle here, because I know it's so much easier to just go along and appease my mom, but I just feel like if I do that, I'll spend my whole life doing that (which truthfully, I have up to this point) and end up unhappy and walking on eggshells like my mom and my aunts are when they're around my grandma and that's not what I want... or maybe I'm just hormonal. Who knows.
Just got a letter that my prescription for Metanx will no longer be covered because it's a "medical food" not approved by the FDA, but the FDA didn't regulate vitamins. I need this to keep my homocystiene in check from MTHFR so that I don't get blood clots among many other issues.
Are you f#$%&ing kidding me?!?! I've been taking this prescribed vitamin for over 3 years and my insurance hascovered it. And now they pull the rug out? I don't know what I'll do now. We're talking $90+ a month without insurance. So pissed!
BFP #4: 8/20/15 EDD: 4/26/18
Stop it.
I hate taxes.
And the girl keeps poking my stomach and shouting "ducky!" (They think my ultrasound looked like a duck) even though I have repeatedly told her to stop.
These kids have zero boundaries and their parents do not discipline them at all. Which often makes my job damn near impossible. How can I get them to do anything when there are zero consequences if they don't do what they're told? So frustrating.