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Warning tmi foreplay question

BabyL527BabyL527 member
in May 2016 Moms
I cant believe i am posting this but at 15+weeks my sex drive is close to nothing. I was just wondering is "Handsy" (finger involvment) foreplay safe??? Be nice to me please..
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Re: Warning tmi foreplay question

  • sarawifenowsarawifenow member
    Yes that is fine. Your baby is very protected in there as your cervix is completely closed. Just make sure his hands are clean and his nails are trimmed.
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  • doozer1345doozer1345 member
    Yes. GL
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  • araecaseyaraecasey member
    Yep, have fun!
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  • nerdymama15nerdymama15 member
    Have fun!  I know we are lol


    First Pregnancy
    • BFP: 01/25/2015
    • EDD: 09/28/2015
    • Incomplete MC: 02/28/2015

    Second Pregnancy

    • BFP: 09/11/2015
    • EDD: 05/25/2016
    Baby Born
    04/15/2016



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  • MissingchampagneMissingchampagne member
    Like the PP said, clean hands without anything gross under the nails that could cause an infection risk is really all you're worried about.
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  • BabyL527BabyL527 member
    Thanks ladies! Maybe I can realax a little and enjoy the good ol times again!
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  • JoMunsonJoMunson member
    In addition-
    Does anyone know about orgasams and contractions? I always heard it was a good way to get things going if you're baby is running a little late, but if I'm planning on the big O every time when should I stop having sex with my husband?
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  • kbrands7kbrands7 member
    edited December 2015
    @JoMunson For me, sex caused BH-like contractions. Right after an orgasm, my uterus would get very hard, but then it would relax again a minute later. It was really not an issue. It's not going to cause you to go into labor if your body's not ready to go into labor.
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  • araecaseyaraecasey member
    ^^what she said. Orgasm isn't an issue unless you're high risk for preterm labor. Your body won't go into labor until it's ready!
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  • JoMunsonJoMunson member
    That is such a relief! I'm literally sitting there after with my legs crossed hoping nothing happens. How ridiculous?!
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  • doozer1345doozer1345 member
    @JoMunson not at all in my experience. In fact, it rocked LO to sleep and helped me fall asleep easier.
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    Been married since 2009.
    Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
    Several MCs
    DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)



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