Broken

leasaj · December 2015

Went in this morning for routine baby check-up and they were unable to detect heartbeat with Doppler. Took me for an ultrasound that verified the baby no longer had a heartbeat. I go in on Thursday for a DNC. So completely heartbroken & riddled with guilt right now. Along the way there were times that I questioned if I could handle a newborn and a toddler. The Dr said I did nothing wrong but I wonder if those thoughts and worries had anything to do with it. I'm struggling right now & just wanted to wish the rest of you luck & happiness on the duration of your pregnancies.

catherinekate · December 2015

This is devastating news and I send you all my love and sympathy. It's so important to remember that you did absolutely nothing wrong. Feelings of worry absolutely no way contributed to this and you can't feel guilty. I am so sorry. You're in my prayers.

matthewsdm · December 2015

So sorry to hear this, thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

candicek15 · December 2015

I am so so sorry to hear this. There is no way it could be your fault. We can't worry our babies away. When I had my miscarriage I found counselling and the miscarriage/pregnancy loss boards to be really helpful and supportive. I hope you can find some peace and comfort soon.

Atlast111 · December 2015

So sorry to hear this news. You absolutely did nothing wrong. I think every woman on this board has questioned her ability to parent at many points in time, this definitely does not cause loss and you are not to blame at all. Sending you thoughts and prayers.

hockeyfan42 · December 2015

You did nothing wrong! I'm very sorry for your loss.

ella26 · December 2015

I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. I am certain that nothing you did caused the baby to not be viable these things just happen.

sending you love and peace.

HeartLikeMine3 · December 2015

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry for your loss. I would say all moms have some degree of worry it's just out of love and it was nothing you did. HUGS

mrsp2213 · December 2015

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

NicknShan · December 2015

I am so sorry to hear of this news. Every new mother will face a time of worry. This is nothing that you did. Sending you hugs and prayers.

mrsschmity · December 2015

So very, very sorry for your loss. Please don't blame yourself for this. Lots of hugs, thoughts and prayers to you.

purplefan1 · December 2015

I am so sorry for your loss! What a devastating thing. My heart goes out to you and your family.

marriedtoadutchman · December 2015

You did nothing wrong! I'm so sorry for your loss

DeePaddy24 · December 2015

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Please don't blame yourself - you did nothing wrong. You're in my thoughts & prayers.

Huskerfanz · December 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is not your fault.

PressLove · December 2015

I'm so sorry. NOTHING you thought or did caused this to happen. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Meglit89 · December 2015

I am so, so sorry to hear this.

augbride87 · December 2015

I am so sorry

Like everyone has said already-- YOU DID NOTHING WRONG!! Every pregnant woman has those same thoughts. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

itsStackie · December 2015

Sorry about your loss. I will pray for you and your family.

tripledaggerWed95976 · December 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss

meggyme · December 2015

You did nothing wrong. I'm so sorry for your loss.

CourtJack · December 2015

So so sorry to hear this

You did nothing wrong and questioning yourself is completely normal. Please don't blame that. I am thinking of you during all of this

Corts · December 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself.

crdo · December 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss. The worries you had were absolutely natural, and in no way caused your loss. This is not your fault. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

Wyattnash00 · December 2015

You absolute did nothing wrong, I have those thoughts daily, sending you big hugs momma

HBamama2B · December 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. Nothing you could have thought would have an impact on the outcome. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

dennyandlee · December 2015

I am so sorry to hear this. Please, please do not blame yourself. I will be praying for you!

peregrinefalconx · December 2015

I'm very, very sorry. I would echo that the Miscarriage, Trying to Conceive After a Loss, and then the PGAL boards are very supportive, should you need them. Heal up in every way.

TunieBee · December 2015

I am so so so very sorry. I have those same thoughts ten times a day. You did nothing to cause this. My thoughts are with you.

alw12290 · December 2015

First I want to tell you how very sorry I am to hear this news. I can assure you that you did nothing wrong. And I wish nothing but the best for you.

fishwife799 · December 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending creepy internet hugs and assuring you this is not your fault.

lm45678 · December 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my T&P.

MrsAlliKat · December 2015

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Hugs to you.

vampbride99 · December 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know this was not your fault, don't blame yourself. You did nothing wrong *hugs*

childcaremama · December 2015

So sorry for the loss of your little baby. You'll carry your baby in your heart forever. I worry about all kinds of things! You worrying is only human! It didn't cause your miscarriage in any way. Hugs!