Just wondering if anyone else's emotions are still absolutely haywire. I am a basket case of tears when before pregnancy I cried maybe once a year. Any solutions to help...?
Solution? Child birth. Hormones level out some after first trimester but not completely. Then there are a few weeks postpartum where you are kind of psycho again. I rarely cry but cry all the time while pregnant. My tolerance for idiocy, B.S., and made-up drama also goes waaaaaay down while pregnant. I am one of those cranky pregnant ladies. My lucky DH. lol.
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012 TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
I hear ya @countrygrl5533. I cry constantly now, but it is rarely because I am sad. It is all frustration and stress and my inability to handle everyone else's stupidity. I wish I got mad, but my knee jerk reaction is to just tear up and sob. Ugh.
I assumed the weepy and bitchy swings were hear to stay during pregnancy. I don't think it goes away till the postpartum phase is over and all the hormones go back to normal.
If someone's voice cracks on a TV show, I'm crying. Also, apparently I can no longer have a decent conversation because at some point in it I'm bound to cry...so that's fun. I'm just laughing it off because I know 99% of the reason I'm crying is because pregnancy has made me ridiculous.
YUP, my hormones and emotions are out of control. I cry at least 5 times a week, ranging from happiness, sadness or just plain being overwhelmed. I really thought things would simmer down by now in the second trimester, but nope, still raging on!
I rarely cry because I am sad these days, but I cry a lot when something makes me or someone else happy or nostalgic. Holiday commercials are the worst! Happy families get me every time.This morning I cried watching a video of my 4 year old nephew open his birthday presents because he was so happy. When my husband says something extra funny or silly this weird laugh/cry combo thing happens.
I don't know about everyone else, but I've found that I cry much more now as a mom than I ever did before. Even without pregnancy hormones I just cry all the time! If DD does something sweet, I cry. Sometimes I cry because I'm so frustrated with her 2 yo fits and stubbornness. Sometimes I cry because she just looks so peaceful while she's sleeping. I cry every single time I find her preemie outfits again. I never cried before I got pregnant but now I'm a weepy mess. It's definitely worse during pregnancy, but you'll probably never go back to your norm of never crying ever again.
You know what really stinks.... I'm a social worker/ counselor so I hear sad stories all day. Before I rarely cried with a client, but now it happens multiple times a week. I feel so bad.
You know what really stinks.... I'm a social worker/ counselor so I hear sad stories all day. Before I rarely cried with a client, but now it happens multiple times a week. I feel so bad.
I have a 7 year old boy with type 1 diabetes who checks in with me about 3-4 times a day and today his blood sugar was right at target for his lunch check-in (he had been running high all week). I burst into tears. He looked at me like I was crazy...because I pretty much am. I couldn't even call his mom because I was so emotional, so I sent her a text and she sent back "Oh, thank goodness! You have been taking such good care of him! I feel so good that he is in your hands during the day." and guess what? Sobbing again. This is really not working for me at work...
@AliciaD39 made me laugh Reminded me of a very early work meltdown where I had hissy fit cos someone stole my cheese!! About the only thing I could stomach at the time was soft cheese sandwiches and when it was taken I had major meltdown then phoned hubby as was laughing / crying about how insane it all was because I just wanted my lunch!!!! (And there was proper stomping! Can't gif or I would find small child tantrum that was me!!)
Yep. Crying very easily. I feel extremely vulnerable and defensive. And if anyone messes with me (= if I feel anyone messes with me, so it might not really be anything at all), I get super angry and aggressive and just feel like i want to hit everyone! (I have pulled myself together so far :-)!
Sometimes I feel like I don't even know this aggressive person!
Re: Crazy emotions still?
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012
TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
DD: 05/14/16
Full on shaking meltdown. And most don't know I'm pregnant so I cried worse because it was so embarrassing.
Reminded me of a very early work meltdown where I had hissy fit cos someone stole my cheese!! About the only thing I could stomach at the time was soft cheese sandwiches and when it was taken I had major meltdown then phoned hubby as was laughing / crying about how insane it all was because I just wanted my lunch!!!!
(And there was proper stomping! Can't gif or I would find small child tantrum that was me!!)
Not my finest moment.
https://www.dumpaday.com/faith-in-humanity-restored/faith-in-humanity-restored-15-pics-2/
These posts always made me cry, but now that I'm pregnant, I get super weepy. I love good people.