I searched and didn't find this posted yet. If it was, and my phone failed me...apologies.
I happened upon this in my birthclub during my second pregnancy and thought it was pretty well said. Of course, everyone's experience is different...but this kinda summed it up for me.
Thought it might be a fun read if you haven't seen it yet, especially around the time we will all be figuring the PP plans out...

*might be tmi to some*
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12446865/lemon-clot-essay-aka-guests-after-delivery-long
Re: Lemon Clot Essay..
Ps I had the lemon clots..... Not fun and no one warned me about them so I was super freaked out
I had too many people over the first time..it was awkward. and uncomfortable...i had terrible hemorrhoids and all i wanted to do was lie down on my side and take the pressure off them and my angry lady bits but there wasn't room with all the guests...
The second time i kept things more private... and it was much nicer. Lol