Why is it said that the first IUI probably won't work? Can someone please explain this to me? Did your RE tell you this?
I've seen several people mentioned this however, there's really no explanation thereafter.
I'm supposed to have my first IUI in December and my RE said we have a 20% chance of it working. That's about the same as a healthy couple.
Me {32} DH {34}
PCOS baby due October 09, 2016
Beta #1: 22.5
Beta #2: 74
Re: Point of clarification {IUI related}
Married Jan. 2014
Me:36 DH: 39
TTC since August 2014, Mild PCOS + uterine fibroids
Myomectomy June 2015- 18 fibroids removed
IVF #1, May 2016 = 32 eggs retrieved, 12 fertilized, 7 frozen, 3 PGS normal
FET#2, July 2016 = one embryo transferred
TRIGGER
BFP! Beta = 617
Due date = 4/9/17
Delivery date = 3/20/17
@cmm012 I asked my RE and some of the nurses th same question and the answers remained pretty consistent.
Thanks!
PCOS baby due October 09, 2016
Beta #1: 22.5
Beta #2: 74
Best of luck to you!!
@riveridgional Yes, he did mention that the chances are lower after three failed attempts. "Just throwing it out there to lower expectations" seems to be the reasoning along with repeating what they heard someone else say without verifying. I don't know...
BTW, congratulations to you two on your BFP!
@ultratomato FX this is it for you!
PCOS baby due October 09, 2016
Beta #1: 22.5
Beta #2: 74
**BFP and loss warning**
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
I think he just told you that not to get your hopes up too high (just like anyone who's TTC shouldn't expect to conceive the first month and freak out if that doesn't happen). I personally got my BFP on my first IUI, but a lot had been done the month prior (hysteroscopy and laparoscopy, with lots of stuff fixed). So maybe it would have worked without IUI, who knows? The tough part in this is that we have very little control, and we want to hold on to whatever piece of hope we can get....then the doctors are there to bring our expectations back in line with reality. I'll still have my fingers crossed for you that the first one does the trick!
In school I was always the kid that asked "why" to every question! Thanks to your responses my anxiety has decreased.
@KidShrink I've been waiting on a success story after the first IUI. Congratulations!
PCOS baby due October 09, 2016
Beta #1: 22.5
Beta #2: 74
I think people probably say it because if you look at the statistics of just that singular IUI, the success rate is only going to be somewhere between 15-25%. So if they are just using the work probably to explain the most likely outcome, it is true that it probably 75-85% won't work. But it still CAN AND DOES work. And that is why we try