Help! I'm having severe insecurities and jealous issues. I'm 17 1/2 weeks pregnant, FTM, and I'm so paranoid NY partner is going to cheat or leave me. We got pregnant immediately after we started seeing each other, but we love each other and are excited about starting a family. We're still getting to know each other in some ways. Before we were together he used to sleep with a girl he works with, and he sees her a few times a month for work functions and it drives me insane. I get filled with rage!!! It was before we met, but I'm so scared he'll change his mind about me and the baby.
Right after we found out, I did the stupid thing, and looked through his phone (I know, I know...) And he was still talking about meeting up with another girl...who knew I was pregnant! WTF?! I confronted him and said he had to cut ties completely with both these girls or I was done. He has, but I'm still a nervous wreck. Please help! I just need advice, reassurance, etc.
Re: insecure/jealous during pregnancy
He swears he wants to be with me and loves me. He says I can go through whatever I want BC he has nothing to hide, and if he didn't love me, he wouldn't be with me .... But I'm still nervous!
I think it would worry me a little bit though if he works with a girl that he use to hook up with and I'm not really the jealous type. But it is good to hear him say that you can go through his phone because he has nothing to hide.