May 2016 Moms
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Quick Intro & Need Help keeping baby a secret
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Long story short my name is Sarah, I'm expecting my 5th & no one knows but my G-Ma. I started bleeding at 14 weeks & today makes 2 weeks of unexplained bleeding & bed & pelvic rest so now I really don't want anyone to know in case it ends bad.
Here's where I need your help. I really want to eat with my family tonight at my 86 year old G-Ma's house BUT in my southern family if the women don't get up & help clear the 90 course meal & do all the dishes you are ridiculed & kicked out of the family so to speak.
I'm looking for a good fib as to why I can't help without telling them I'm K/U. Faking sick is out of the question b/c then my whole family would say I made them sick & blame every cough, fart & booger they have for the next 2 weeks on me.
Thanks in advance ladies & may all the good food you're about to eat hit the spot! Safe travels at this busy time & happy healthy pregnancies to everyone!
I'm going to try & become more involved as I stalk the board numerous times a day & I read every post made. I am a single Mom of 4 (12G, 10G, 2.5G & 9monthB). My family spent 9 months in a DV shelter last year & this makes the 3rd baby I'll have with my abuser. I have prosicuted to the fullest extent of the law & I hope & pray he goes to prison in February! I kept my kids away from all of the drama & other than us being in the shelter they knew nothing was wrong. I don't have many friends but I could sure say there are plenty of you I wouldn't mind calling friends even though you don't know me. I will say I wish I lived in New York so I could meet up for brunch!
Sorry this post is all over the place lol I'm just really stressing & I know I need to stop its just the not knowing why I'm bleeding & how that will turn out then the aspect of tonight.
That's all folks, crazy post over & out
Here's where I need your help. I really want to eat with my family tonight at my 86 year old G-Ma's house BUT in my southern family if the women don't get up & help clear the 90 course meal & do all the dishes you are ridiculed & kicked out of the family so to speak.
I'm looking for a good fib as to why I can't help without telling them I'm K/U. Faking sick is out of the question b/c then my whole family would say I made them sick & blame every cough, fart & booger they have for the next 2 weeks on me.
Thanks in advance ladies & may all the good food you're about to eat hit the spot! Safe travels at this busy time & happy healthy pregnancies to everyone!
I'm going to try & become more involved as I stalk the board numerous times a day & I read every post made. I am a single Mom of 4 (12G, 10G, 2.5G & 9monthB). My family spent 9 months in a DV shelter last year & this makes the 3rd baby I'll have with my abuser. I have prosicuted to the fullest extent of the law & I hope & pray he goes to prison in February! I kept my kids away from all of the drama & other than us being in the shelter they knew nothing was wrong. I don't have many friends but I could sure say there are plenty of you I wouldn't mind calling friends even though you don't know me. I will say I wish I lived in New York so I could meet up for brunch!
Sorry this post is all over the place lol I'm just really stressing & I know I need to stop its just the not knowing why I'm bleeding & how that will turn out then the aspect of tonight.
That's all folks, crazy post over & out
Re: Quick Intro & Need Help keeping baby a secret
Don't include your kids in the injury story, they'll rat you out quick. Something like "I was shopping and tripped in the parking lot/ uneven asphalt, I fell weird and it all happened so fast..." With no more details on the fall other than pain.
Don't limp. Limping always looks fake even when it's real.
Pick and stick with a leg. If you forget which one it was and tell someone the wrong leg, you're doomed.
Stick with the knee. If you try to say ankle it's easy for them to want to see it or check for swelling. It's rude if they try to see your knee.
They know I just paid big bucks yesterday for my fibromyalgia pain management treatment so I couldn't fake an injury due to the fact they know I'm required to lay down as much as possible for the following 24 hours.
Happy Thanksgiving!