I know this has come up recently in other posts, but I'm so irritated right now with family members commenting on when we are going to have kids. None of these have been people we are super close to (i.e. cousins we see once every 3 years), and are not people we would talk with about health issues or our personal decision about whether/when to have kids. They aren't people who know about the MCs, and I know they mean well, but ugh. The comments are always that we "need to hurry up and have a baby" or "when we have a baby blah blah blah." One of them actually made the comment in a written note! Like you had to think about it, write it down, and still decide to send it. It feels especially careless because DH have been together for a very long time now with no kids, and I would think at this point it might at least cross people's minds that we either didn't want kids or were having trouble having them.