I'd like to preface that this post isn't a "poor me" post. Just hoping someone has gone through this and can offer some help. We found out when my period was 2 weeks late that I was pregnant with a surprise baby. We were shocked and trying to figure out logistics (we have 2 other kids) but started to pick names, etc. At our 9 week appt we were told there was no heartbeat. I went back a week later to confirm that the baby had indeed passed. It took 2 1/2 excruciatingly long weeks from that point to miscarry. I'm now 2 weeks from that horrible day, and last night I got in an argument with my husband in which he told me "I never wanted that baby. I prayed you'd lose it. I'm happy we don't have to have it. I'm not listening to you from now on, we're done having kids. I'm getting a vasectomy so we don't have any more mistakes." I just cried. I didn't even know what to say. How do I go back to normal after that? He'll just tell me "I just said that in the heat of the moment" or some bull crap.