When do you find the time?

KristynLee15 · November 2015

Anyone who has been cleared by ob..when do you find the time for sex??? LO is just over 6 weeks and she is still only sleeping 2-3 hours at a time. Weve done it once sonce i was cleared but the whole time i was afraid she wake up. I keep waiting for this normal routine people talk about.
Also, we are livong with my parents now, so that is also an obstacle.
Do you just jump on in and hope LO doesnt wake up and interrupt?
Im feeling a little guilty that this is a priority worry for me. But i just need to get some!!!

Casseylemon · November 2015

I was thinking the same thing!

KristynLee15 · November 2015

I mean i definitely want it! All the time...just no clue how to fit it in! Plus im oretty sure my spitup covered flabby self is not sexy.

midge519 · November 2015

We've done the deed a few times and we try to take advantage of a nap during the day or if I can get LO in his crib and he stays quiet for a few minutes we jump on it. We've been interrupted a few times but ultimately it works out

koriemo · November 2015

I can usually tell when he is sleeping soundly enough that we'll have at least 15 minutes uninterrupted. So if he does start to stir, I can't concentrate anymore and we just finish up.

nimmunogirl · November 2015

I started dream feeding. I fed her right before we had sex, so I knew she wasn't going to wake up.

KristynLee15 · November 2015

What is dream feeding? I know we have the added obstacle of my parents. I kind of feel like a teenager again, where you hope.your parents leave the house. Only klnow its hope they leave the house and baby is asleep at the same time!!!

nimmunogirl · November 2015

@KristynLee15, dream feeding is when you feed them when they are still sleeping. They will still suck and eat. For example, my LO went to bed at 8p. I fed her while she was sleeping at 1030p and then again before I went to bed at midnight and she slept until 430 when she was ready to eat again. She ate 3 times, but she was really sleeping for 8.5 hours!

Knottie41972438 · November 2015

@nimmunogirl going to bed at midnight, how in the world do you make it that late lol. I hardly make it to 10pm because I'm so tired.

rms924 · November 2015

Knottie41972438 said:
@nimmunogirl going to bed at midnight, how in the world do you make it that late lol. I hardly make it to 10pm because I'm so tired.

This! And I live on caffeine all day haha! No idea how to fit in a shower or time to pee let alone sex. My poor husband

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