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silentPsilentP member
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Hi ladies,

I have been lurking for a few weeks so I thought I would say hello. I am 33, have a three year old son, and am recovering from my second D&C after my second MMC in 4 months. Feeling pretty crappy, to be honest, but we are having a chromosomal analysis done this time and I will also get some blood work done. Hoping for some kind of direction.

I have it in me to at least try once more, but obviously probably benched for a couple months. So frustrating to think the absolute soonest I would have a baby in my arms would be a year or so from now. But this process has taught me to drop expectations and ideal timelines. Thanks for letting me ramble. Best to all of you and I look forward to getting to know you all.
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Re: Intro (loss and LO mentioned)

  • FireInWonderlandFireInWonderland member
    So sorry to hear about your losses, and even more sorry to hear they were back to back. Ramble away! We are here to support you. Hopefully it was nothing serious, and your next efforts will bring you a healthy and happy baby! Welcome, and wishing you a short stay here!
    TTC #1 - Started 7/2015
    MC #1 - 1/10/2014
    MC #2 - 10/15/2015

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  • queenklauqueenklau member
    @silentP, I am so sorry to hear that. We have almost the same story, except I don't have a LO at home. Back to back MMC this year, and waiting from chromosomal results this time as well as blood work to be done after AF on me and also DH. Then, SIS on me after the next AF... Doctor wants all of the results in before we get pregnant again, which puts us around late Jan before we can ttc again.

    But you know what, 2016 is our year! I have a feeling it will be a good one
    ******TW******Siggy warning
    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • tinypikachutinypikachu member
    Welcome! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon
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  • ceclarlinetloceclarlinetlo member
    Hi @silentP - I am with you and @klauerinaking in the two MMC back to back boat. I had some testing done afterwards including an SIS and I found out I have a uterine septum so I'm benched until it's removed. When I think about the fact that we started trying in 2014 for a baby and it will now most likely be 2017 before we get one its mind boggling. I hope you get your answers soon - it's definitely all the waiting that makes this so hard.
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    ———
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    ———
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

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  • 1faceinacrowd1faceinacrowd member
    Welcome to the community! I hope you find lots of support while you're here.
    I had my first mc last month. I can't imagine having them back-to-back. :( I'm so sorry. I hope everything goes well for you and that you are welcoming a beautiful rainbow baby into the world next year!
    Me: 25  DH: 28

    Hubby's little boy - my wonderful step-son - born 5/23/10
    BFP#1: 06/2010...my beautiful baby girl born 3/7/2011
    BFP #2: 10/24/15...mc on 10/31/15
    BFP #3: 11/27/15. EDD 8/6/16

    "Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm." -Winston Churchill
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  • silentPsilentP member
    Thanks, everyone! Hoping you all have an easy journey from here on out.
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  • queenklauqueenklau member
    *Update* I updated already on the mc/loss board, so apologies for the redundancy for some of you.

    We got the karyotyope analysis back today and it showed that we lost our little girl due to Turner's syndrome. The baby had only one X chromosome, where normally you either have XX or XY (female/male respectively). There was a very low chance that she would make it to term, over 90% naturally stop developing within the first trimester.

    I am equally sad and relieved that we know this. Fortunately, it is a random mistake and I have no increased chances of happening again.

    @silentP , I hope that you can get some answers. 2016 indeed!

    Staying positive and hoping for the best in our journeys.
    ******TW******Siggy warning
    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • ceclarlinetloceclarlinetlo member
    @klauerinaking I'm so glad you got an answer and that you aren't at higher risk for future pregnancies. Thanks for the update.
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    ———
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    ———
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

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  • crob5685crob5685 member
    @silentP welcome to the board and sorry you have to be here. Hopefully you will find this place a comfort as so many of us have. FX 2016 brings you your rainbow baby!
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