We just met with the OB in our MW practice for VBAC/TOLAC counseling and they have the following "rules". Wondering how in line they are with your provider?
-18 months between deliveries
-not past 41wks and must be spontaneous labor (they won't induce anyone with a prior c/s)
-only one prior c/s
-requires continuous fetal monitoring
-requires IV (saline locked ok)
I understand their reasoning behind all the rules, but my meeting with the OB was not very reassuring

I've had one prior c/s for a frank breech baby (at 37w due to IUGR/oligo). I'm very concerned that my body won't go into labor on it's own before 41w, particularly because I was measuring a week behind at my first u/s and anatomy scan, but they didn't change the due date.
I'm also worried that I'll never have a "normal" vaginal delivery, or even be in labor, because we're done after this one. I though this visit would make me feel better, but it made it worse.
Re: VBAC/TOLAC "rules" from your provider?
Continuous monitoring and saline locks are standard w VBACs. Induction of VBAC does carry a higher chance of uterine rupture, but it's still a very small chance (and one that should be available to women if they so choose and understand the risks). Good luck!
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
This sounds similar to what I'm hearing (I'm in Canada). My midwife did mention that they would maybe use a foley catheter for induction, but no chemical induction because of the elevated risk of uterine rupture, so here's hoping I go into labour on my own and it progresses well. They're also requesting my delivery records from my C-section, in part to find out if I had a double layer or single layer incision. I'm not sure what happens if it was single layer...that has a higher risk of rupture as well.
My previous C-section was due to breech twins.
Please don't view continuous fetal monitoring as an unnecessary rule. CFM is the best and most accurate way to detect a uterine rupture. The incidence of rupture for a vbac Mom is 1 in 200. So it's low, but if it happens it is critical to have a stat c/s within 15 minutes. Many hospitals have wireless and waterproof monitoring, so CFM shouldn't hinder your labor.
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