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Really need someone to talk to ... a single mom?

shelinabaileyshelinabailey member
in May 2016 Moms
I'm 13 weeks but broke up with the babies father sometime in September. .he was very abusive even beat me 2 weeks before we broke up... after he purchased a gun.... I started to feel unsafe especially since it's so easy to put his hands on a female then I knew it wouldn't be hard for him to pull the trigger

At the end of September I started dating and actually gave another guy a chance....(it's not like I didn't know him.. I've known him for about a year or two) on Oct 28th I found out I was pregnant and the guy I was dating at the time claimed he didn't care and he'd be there for me through thick and thin ....

Last night I woke up to everything of his gone.... with a text message that says he's done ... and he just wants to walk away ...turns out he went back to his ex ... the ex that slept with all his friends behind his back and had 3 of his children aborted ...

I feel so sad and depressed right now that I don't know what to do... I know my main priority will always be my child and our future.. but what can I do about this pain and hurt that I'm experiencing right now ?
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Re: Really need someone to talk to ... a single mom?

  • MellieRoseVargasMellieRoseVargas member
    Aye mama these times are the hardest while expecting. I honestly suggest to spend quality time with friends and family as much as possible so you can have a sense of love from honest hearts. It does help.
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  • BabyBliss2012BabyBliss2012 member
    I agree with @MellieRoseVargas, and I also think you should start focusing more on yourself and the baby right now and try not to jump into another relationship just to avoid being a single mother. Rushing into something to fill a void can be for the wrong reasons. Just focus on yourself, souround yourself with loving family and friends, and when the time is right, the right man will come along. It may be a few months, or years from now, but it will be worth it!
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  • missnc77missnc77 member
    "he just wants to walk away ...turns out he went back to his ex ... the ex that slept with all his friends behind his back and had 3 of his children aborted ..."

    This is not someone I'd want in my life or my baby's life. Sounds like once you get through the pain, you will see you dodged a bullet. You don't deserve to be abandoned. You don't deserve this stress. You deserve to be happy and find someone that cares for you, but right now, you should focus on yourself and the baby - something that will be better for you both in the end.
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