May 2016 Moms

Lost our baby today

We lost our baby today. It's the most devastating feeling, even when you suspect it's coming. We had an ultrasound on 10/7 that showed the sac measuring at 5w4d, when based on LMP I should have been 8w. My cycles are irregular, though, so there was hope that the dates were just off. We were nearing the end of an agonizing 3 week wait where we would finally have our follow up ultrasound (scheduled for Wednesday), but I started with some light bleeding and cramping yesterday. We went in for an ultrasound today, and the sac didn't change in the past 3ish weeks. The OB confirmed that I'm having a miscarriage. 

In the past month, my husband's grandma died, we found out our dog is dying, and now this. Life seems so unfair sometimes. I'm struggling to be at peace and push all of these ugly feelings aside.  
Me: 29, DH: 31
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17 <3
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19. 


Re: Lost our baby today

  • Im so sorry to hear about your loss. Hope you and your family stay strong during this difficult time.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
  • I am so sorry :( Thoughts and prayers to you during this time. I am also very sorry to hear about your grandma and dog. Please be kind to yourself and allow yourself time to grieve. That's a lot to handle at once xoxo

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  • That is horrible.  I'm so sorry for everything that's happening.  Don't be concerned with pushing ugly feelings aside.  It's okay to feel that what!!  Do what ever you need to do to properly grieve.  All of those situations are hard enough on their own, let alone all at once.

    Many T&P's to you.
    Me: 27    DH: 30
    Married in 2011
    Baby 1: Stillborn at 27 weeks (April 2014)
    Baby 2: Due May 2016

  • I'm so sorry. That's a lot to handle and so unfair. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
  • I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. Sending thoughts and prayers.
    Baby # 1: BFP 10/26/12: Baby girl born 7/1/13
    Baby #2: BFP 9/2/15: EDD 5/15/16
  • Oh I am so sorry to hear this! Ts, Ps, and hugs!
  • I am so sorry for your loss and all that you are going through.  Please take the time you need to grieve.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

     

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  • You are stronger than you know - stay positive and chin up :) we are all here for you!!
  • So sorry for all of your losses.
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    TTC#1 July 2015 
    • BFP: 9/16/15 — MC: 11/8/15 Blighted Ovum
    • BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
    TTC#2 April 2019 
    • BFP: 9/12/19 — EDD 5/15/20

  • T&Ps to you and your family through this time.
    Baby #2 EDD: May 13th!
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  • So sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry. Thinking of you.



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  • I'm so sorry for everything. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers. 
  • I am so sorry for your loss.. Prayers to you and your family for all you have been through recently
  • So sorry for your sad news.  I'm going through the same thing.  You might want to stop by the miscarriage board if you want a safe place to talk where there aren't people complaining about being pregnant or hoping baby's not a boy.
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
  • I am so sorry to hear this :( My mom always says that "when it rains, it pours" when it comes to bad things happening all at once. I hope that the rain clears for you soon and you have some sunshine.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself and take the time to heal.



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    BFP 1: 9/15/2013 | DD 5/23/2014
    BFP 2: 9/15/2015 | EDD 5/26/2016

  • I'm so sorry. That's a lot of losses to mourn at once. You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers. Be kind to yourself, and take each day one step at a time.
  • I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this. Best wishes for you as you move forward..
    Me: 38; DH: 41
    DS: Born 5-17-16 

  • I'm so so sorry for your loss
  • Bless you! There is not a comforting word that I can offer you I am sure of that but I will most definitely pray for you! I will pray for peace in your heart and soul and for you to be wrapped in love until you feel comforted. I wish you well.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. T&P for you and your family.
  • So, so sorry for your loss.  Be kind to yourself.
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  • I know there's nothing anyone can say to take away the feelings of loss you're having but I am so sorry, my heart truly does go out to you. Keeping you in my thoughts, sending light and love your way xo
  • I'm so sorry for your loss
  • Sorry for your loss... Receive a hug from spain. Take care and take time to get trought this life will bring you bright things soon! Kiss
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