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First pregnancy totally unplanned! Scared momma

arosemongarosemong member
in June 2016 Moms
Hi all :)

This is my first pregnancy & I am scared to death. I just want the baby to be happy & healthy. I have been keeping up with my workouts, just not as intense, eating very healthy not many unhealthy cravings! I think I'm so nervous because my doctor told me I don't need to come in until 8weeks. I am only 6 weeks now. It would ease my mind to go in now just to make sure I'm not high risk or anything. Did anyone else feel like a fish out of water during their first pregnancy?

Thanks for the input & happy Halloween :)
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  • LinsbinsLinsbins member
    You'll be fine. That's when doctors suggest almost everyone goes in. Welcome and congrats.
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  • mrsb8244mrsb8244 member
    I'm a first timer too! Luckily my cycle is longer but they still scheduled my appointment according to it so they think I will be 8w1d and I think I will only be 6w4d. The wait is still driving me crazy! I'm 5w5d right now. Congratulations and welcome!
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  • huskypuppy14huskypuppy14 member
    I'm also 6 weeks, and will go for my first appointment at almost 9 weeks (but really 8 weeks, since I also ovulate late). That was the earliest appointment I could get. I figured I stopped drinking, I don't smoke, and other than some prescriptions that I need to take, I'm relatively healthy. I'm sure they can answer any questions you have in the meantime before you go to your first appointment. 



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  • LoveNeverFailsYou27LoveNeverFailsYou27 member
    My first appointment is at 10 weeks (this Wednesday!) the wait has been hard.
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Thanks all! Glad I'm not alone! Congrats to everyone as well. I am so excited to go I don't know how I'll get past these next few weeks. Is there a fast forward button for life they can invent?! Haha :)
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  • NicknShanNicknShan member
    Just relax and enjoy. I promise you will look back thinking it flew by.

    This is totally normal. What will they do for you at your 8 week appointment?
    Married: June 25, 2011
    DS #1: Born September 29, 2013
    Baby #2: Due June 3, 2016

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  • lm45678lm45678 member
    FTM here too-- I'm trying to remain calm as well! I finally see why all of my pregnant patients were nuts!!

    I just keep reminding myself that while its early (7w1d) there are no signs anything is wrong. I also just keep thinking about all of the beautiful healthy babies that have been born into my family recently and focus on that instead of the negative!

    I have a feeling that as soon as you get to your appt and see the heartbeat you'll be totally reassured :)
    Me (31) & DH (32)
    Married 9/27/2014
    DD Born 6/23/16
    Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    They told me they would do an internal sonogram & take cultures? Not sure what that means (the cultures) & not taking blood! Which I thought was unusual? Hopefully it'll go well! @laurenm2123 I am trying to stay positive I think I am just such a nervous nelly! We haven't told family yet either ! Waiting until we get further along, around the holidays :)
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  • FunkymooncowFunkymooncow member
    I feel the same way - am counting down days til my first appointment at 9 weeks!
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Funkymooncow said:

    I feel the same way - am counting down days til my first appointment at 9 weeks!


    Can we get a fast forward button on life or what?! :)
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  • lindygirl0408lindygirl0408 member
    I am also unexpectedly expecting! I was on BC for my first 4 weeks, until I had a suspicion that I could be pregnant. I called my OB completely freaking out at just over 4 weeks, after my BFP. They also set my appt for 8/9 weeks out and said they weren't concerned about the BC harming anything and to go about life as usual - minus the pills, of course.

    My appt is FINALLY Friday. It has been a tough 4 weeks.

    Congrats, and good luck!
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  • pregomyego2pregomyego2 member
    Op and FTMs, totally a normal feeling! My first pregnancy, I swore the first appointment would never get here- I didn't think I could stand the wait!

    He turns 4 next week. :)

    I know it feels like life is moving in slow motion but I promise, the day WILL come! And one day maybe you'll be onto number two (like me) and telling mom's on this board your BTDT tales!

    Congrats to all you mamas!!!
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  • Newbgn08Newbgn08 member
    FTM. I am super nervous. I have my first appointment today. The wait has been crazy. I received a call from the doctor to reschedule my appointment. I was freaking out,but she just moved the time up.
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  • cjt121413cjt121413 member
    Congrats on your pregnancy. I'm a second time mom and still pretty anxious. First tri is pretty nerve-wracking. Try to keep busy and keep taking good care of yourself, and that appointment will be here before you know it.

    Me: 33     H: 36

    Married: 12/14/13   DS: 1/29/09

    BFP2: 10/9/15  MMC: 11/12/15

    BFP3: 4/6/16   DD: 12/12/16


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  • GinnyJ2012GinnyJ2012 member
    This is my third and it still hard waiting between appointments, but the wait for the first was by far the worst. With my first two it was a bit easier once baby started moving consistently.


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  • CourtJackCourtJack member
    Welcome and congrats. You're concerns are 100% normal and guaranteed almost everyone feels the same way :) I encourage you to snoop around the board, read some threads and join in - good way to distract yourself :)
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Thanks ladies! I just stomached a green smoothie & now I'm eating Cheetos.. The need for salt is real! I feel like a crazy person haha :) thanks for all the kind words !
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  • athena0322athena0322 member
    Unexpected FTM here also, I didn't know when my last period was so i got to go at 4 weeks for an US, it looked like a little spec but was super reassuring and scary at the the same time, that has made it worse when it comes to wanting to tell everyone! I am now 7w6d and had a second US and go back in 4 weeks(: Good luck!
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  • VikingGirl12VikingGirl12 member
    arosemong said:

    They told me they would do an internal sonogram & take cultures? Not sure what that means (the cultures) & not taking blood! Which I thought was unusual? Hopefully it'll go well! @laurenm2123 I am trying to stay positive I think I am just such a nervous nelly! We haven't told family yet either ! Waiting until we get further along, around the holidays :)

    Cultures means you'll be getting a Pap smear. They'll test for infections and other problems. It's bo big deal. At my first appt with DS she also did a breast exam and basically checked me from head to toe. If they don't do blood at this one they'll do it soon to test your iron levels and look for other harmful STDs so they can treat you if necessary.
    Just try to relax and take it a day at a time. This is a really exciting and scary time, but as others said, you'll be amazes at how it flies by!
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