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Feeling scared

lyssap26lyssap26 member
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Just moved to a big city pregnant I have no family or friends out here im feelin scared and unsure of this! Me and the baby's father don't even tell Eachother we love eachother is this normal?
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Re: Feeling scared

  • LinsbinsLinsbins member
    lyssap26 said:

    Just moved to a big city pregnant I have no family or friends out here im feelin scared and unsure of this! Me and the baby's father don't even tell Eachother we love eachother is this normal?

    Probably not. I also moved recently. You need to work hard to make new friends as an adult in a new city. If you and the dad don't love each other you need to figure stuff out real fast. I call MUD, but if not, good luck. You'll need it.
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  • kalanieileenkalanieileen member
    My first thought was, OP how old are you? <-- genuine question. Not trying to be an ass. Second thought was, MUD. You're not really giving us that much info here. What are you unsure of? The move? The pregnancy? Based off what you wrote I can only assume you and the baby's father are still together. You're scared of the relationship? Scared of the pregnancy? Are you really asking if it's normal that two people in a relationship dont tell each other they love each other? Are you asking if it's normal to feel scared? Not enough info
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  • ecwkecwk member
    lyssap26 said:

    Just moved to a big city pregnant I have no family or friends out here im feelin scared and unsure of this! Me and the baby's father don't even tell Eachother we love eachother is this normal?

    Congrats on your pregnancy. No, I would say that is not normal.
    How old are you? Genuine question.

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  • MommaChrissie27MommaChrissie27 member
    I can't imagine how you must be feeling... All I can suggest is that you find a local midwife asap so you have someone to ask questions, and befriend work colleagues etc. I wouldn't say it's normal to not be expressing love to the baby's father. Are you still together? Good luck! xxx
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  • SoverthisSoverthis member
    Maybe join a mommy group or pregnancy yoga. Or find a book club. sounds like you and the dad need to talk thngs out. Maybe have a skype date with your friends and fam back home. I hope things start looking up for you. 
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