I just scheduled my c section today due to baby girl wing breech. I was talking to my Sil who then informed me that I needed to buy formula because my milk won't come in since I am not having her vaginally. I breastfed both my boys and really want to nurse this time too. This sounds wrong to me but is she right? She also said that it is harder to nurse and that I should just bottle feed. Anybody have any advice about nursing and any differences I will see because of having a c section?
Re: C section and breastfeeding
I had a c-section with my son, my milk came in just fine & we exclusively breast fed no problem until I decided to stop - well past 6 months.
If you bf before you can most certainly do it again. Do plan on a pillow or something for support (boppy, whatever) but other than that - enjoy
ETA: I was nursing my third on the operating table while they stitched me up.
With my first I tried to get him on the boob and he'd scream. I even tried a shield and nothing. He'd latch for a bit but let go and scream. I didn't pump as often as I should have, it seems like my milk didn't come in well enough, although I did leak.
I am SO new at this that I don't even know where to start. My SIL told me to bottle feed the first two weeks and pump while I'm doing that and then introduce breastfeeding. My mom says to BF right away. Will the baby get enough to eat without a bottle? Do you even introduce a bottle while at the hospital?
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My son (my first child) was born via c section in March and we are still going strong with breast feeding with no signs of stopping. However, when we were still in the hospital, when he was very hungry he would have issues latching because he was so upset, and would have the same issue you described with the whole "latch and unlatch" fiasco. At one point I requested for a nurse to come in and help us figure out why he wasn't latching, and one thing she did was show me is that you have to be a bit more firmer than you might think with putting baby to the breast (for lack of better phrasing-and this is gonna sound a lot worse than it was- but you kind of have to mash the breast into baby's mouth)
As for wondering if your baby is going to be getting enough milk, remember that newborn baby's stomach is very very small, and won't need a whole lot to fill it, and colostrum is very nutrient rich.
When it comes to your moms or SILs advice, I'd listen to your mother. Nothing can stimulate milk production better than baby itself! There are plenty of other things you can also do to encourage your body to get the milk supply going. The easiest is skin on skin contact with your LO. I did this for 95% of my LOs feeds in the hospital and additionally, it helped him calm down a bit too so it was easier to get him to latch when he was frantically hungry and mad about it.
Another small an probably unnecessary tidbit, the hospital is going to make you do this anyway, but drink as much water as you can, obviously keeping well hydrated will also help amp up your supply.
Best of luck, and don't forget the breastfeeding board on here on the bump has enough traffic on it with wonderful ladies who give great advice!
ETA: because words are hard
When the LC came in to help and started, as you said, mashing my son's face to the boob and he'd scream is when I lost it. I think it was all so new to me that I was just overwhelmed. I'm not going to give up this time, and I really do appreciate you taking the time to give me a little advise.
Congratulations as well on the new baby!!!
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Another incredible resource for breastfeeding that I forgot to mention before is kellymom.com. It's has lots of information available all in one place.
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