Please T&P,very sad( possible loss. ) small update nervous reck

dee300i · October 2015

So please I need some thoughts and prayers long story short. I've had three miscarries and I have two little girls one 4 another aged 1. I felt like something wasn't right this time around I felt a empty feeling. I'm taking baby aspirin along with progestrone. And my hCG levels are rising as they should. But something wasn't right so I asked my doctor for an ultrasound. From my Lmp I should be 7 weeks today. I got in for a ultrasound today which was perfect, to check to see how things are progressing. The tech couldn't see anything so she did vaginal ultrasound.

all she found was a sack measuring 6 weeks and only a fetal pole. No baby. She said that maybe I'm just too early or my dates wrong. But I know my last menstrual period and I know when we bed. I'm so sad, I have to go back into weeks for another ultrasound. I just don't know what to think, thank you all for listening to me. Sending lots of beautiful baby dust your way. :x

So I have a ultrasound today at 1:30. I am praying we see a strong heart beat. I'm sooo scared

dennyandlee · October 2015

Hoping the doctor is right and you are not as far along as you thought. So sorry you are having to be unsettled about it for two more weeks. Best wishes and prayers for you!

mrszoess · October 2015

I measured behind and a week later saw a heartbeat! good luck!

ella26 · October 2015

Sending you thoughts and prayers!

mrsb8244 · October 2015

Thoughts and prayers are with you. Hoping you're just not as far along as you think!

candicek15 · October 2015

Unless you were charting and temping you won't know exactly when you ovulated. It's definitely possible that it happened later than you thought. I really hope that's the case and that you get a good outcome! FX for you and a healthy baby.

fishwife799 · October 2015

T&P. I hope you are just not as far along as you thought.

crdo · October 2015

T&P to you and yours. Hope all is well.

sorarose · October 2015

Unless you have a 28 day cycle, LMP is not an exact science. With the information you've provided, it sounds like you likely ovulated later than you think. Fx that everything is going well with you.

Also, as a side note, the term "baby dust" is considered offensive on TB, so please don't use it in the future.

Scout27 · October 2015

I hope you're just not as far along as you thought. Thoughts and prayers to you!

hockeyfan42 · October 2015

Like @candicek15 said, unless you were temping, you can't be certain when you ovulated. I measured ten days behind with my first pregnancy, even though I knew my LMP. I didn't temp, so I was off.

And ditto to @sorarose, please don't use the term 'baby dust'.

T&Ps to you!!

FutureMrsCAF · October 2015

Praying you ovulated later than you thought. Fingers crossed for a good follow up.

dee300i · October 2015

I'm very very sorry about using the term I had no idea. I feel awful. I'm very sorry.

dee300i · October 2015

Thank you for all the positive comments ..

HBamama2B · October 2015

Just curious, why is it offensive? Hadn't seen that before.....

DeePaddy24 · October 2015

HBamama2B said:
Just curious, why is it offensive? Hadn't seen that before.....

@HBamama2B some ladies have lost babies & had them cremated. The term is a powerful & hurtful reminder of that.

DeePaddy24 · October 2015

Thoughts & prayers are with you.

dee300i · October 2015

Having three miscarries and having them all cremated I can understand why. Wasn't thinking.

NicknShan · October 2015

Sending prayers. So sorry you are dealing with this. :-(

Also, back in my day on TB, using the term baby dust was as common on here as I see special snowflake now these days. I can totally see how it could be offensive, and I never liked the term anyway.

noslen0519 · October 2015

Thoughts and prayers your way..

sorarose · October 2015

dee300i said:

Having three miscarries and having them all cremated I can understand why. Wasn't thinking.

You didn't know, and your heart is in the right place during what is clearly a difficult time. I know you're only going to feel comforted when you see the heartbeat, but because your hcg sounds good and there's a sac and fetal pole, it just sounds too early. Even a few days can make all the difference. Please keep up updated!

VikingGirl12 · October 2015

Praying that your doctor is right! Please keep us informed.

GinnyJ2012 · October 2015

I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I had my ultrasound on Monday and my date is off by one week if you go based off my LMP date. Hopefully your dates are just off.

dee300i · October 2015

I will definitely come back and update you guys. I was on a 24 day cycle so I thought I ovulated the right time. We only tried once so I just very confused with the dates. My heart is telling me otherwise. I'm pretty sure that the feeling I have is too familiar

but there is positive thoughts here, which is very comforting. Going to continue taking progesterone and the Low dose of aspirin. I haven't been diagnosed with low progesterone or blood clotting. But the Docter wants to keep it up and to keep checking my HCG levels as well. Here's to hoping. :-<

sorarose · October 2015

The u/s can be off around 3 days and sperm can live inside of you for a few days (up to 7, but 3 days is probably a better average).

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