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Pretty sure i'm loosing this one too

linzandjer11linzandjer11 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
It's third one this year.

It was a surprise pregnancy because we weren't trying.

It's happening while i'm trying to throw a party for my husband and hosting his family through the weekend.

It's happening near the due date of my first miscarriage.

I've had a healthy pregnancy before.

Feeling quite sad. Feeling like i'll never get passed 9 weeks again. Feeling like i don't want to play host and just want to curl up and cry.

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Re: Pretty sure i'm loosing this one too

  • lilp2015lilp2015 member
    Sorry your going through this. I've had 2 losses this year and now about 4 weeks pregnant with our surprise. Have you had any testing? My dr tested after the second loss because blood clotting disorder can cause a lot of mc between 8-10 weeks and she was right I have MTHFR. Thoughts and prayers!
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  • diane2218diane2218 member
    Oh dear...I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.  I have had one loss (my first pregnancy), so I have many of the same feelings as you but added that I don't know if I can carry a child to term - great anxiety comes from that.  For everything to line up for you...the anniversary of a loss, family in town...it's not fair.  It isn't fair that any of us have to go through this.  I'm sorry you have to fake the "host" look right now despite how you feel inside.  Give yourself permission to take a long shower and cry the whole time if that helps.  Escape somehow, just for a bit.  Take care of yourself.
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  • almostahawkalmostahawk member
    I am so sorry.  I have my fingers crossed for you that it's all okay.  
    Pregnancy Ticker
    Sadly miscarried our first pregnancy 09.09.15
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