Trying for another baby after 3 MC

NatalBaby07 · October 2015

OK guys first off I just want to say how sorry I am for all the mother's out there who have lost there babies I am with u that's y I'm here to say don't give up OK bc it's gonna get better. Last nite my husband n I had a great talk about trying again to get pregnant n we r up n running again, we r no longer using condoms n we are starting this month I just finished my period yesterday n we r counting the day to my ovulation n fertility time I'm super excited but nerves but I no God is watching over us. So if everyone can pray for us I would like that a lot. My God bless each n everyone of u chins up n have faith God hears all. God bless.

daisy62103 · October 2015

I wish you and your husband the best. I have had three mc's too in between the 3 children I already have.

NatalBaby07 · October 2015

Yea I don't think we or gonna try now my husband n I was talking a few hours ago n now he's not sure he wants to try bc of r living situation I cried I don't even no any more sometimes I just want to give up n say fuck it bc I'm gonna b 29 next yr I'm not get younger I'm getting older n it's hard on women when they get older I feel so hopeless n I can't stop crying. I want more then anything to finally have my first baby. Life is so unfair.

sandiego715 · October 2015

Im trying:( im 34 tomorrow. Found out yesterday that I have an irregular sac only at 6 weeks 5 days. This will now be our 3rd mc. No children and my hubby is 38 and will be 39 next yr. i feel aweful that we are older without a first. I might get another d&c so its done and over with so we can try again. But this time get tested and blood work. Being referred to an RE

AppleRidge · October 2015

Good luck to all of you. I was a regular on these boards back in 2009-10 when I had my first three losses, and met so many great women I'm still friends with (all of whom were in the same boat). I can tell you that of the 20-30 people I kept in touch with, all but two have gone on to have at least one or two healthy kids. You should definitely have hope!

sandiego715 · October 2015

@BBHME i am going through my 3rd in a row. All did not produce a fetal pole. Did you have this or any of them have that issue? Next step is genetic testing and coagulation panel for disorders. My ob seems to think it may be genetics and that would be devastating for me.

AppleRidge · October 2015

@sandiego715 - Two of mine were too early for fetal pole; the other two both missed m/c where the baby's heartbeat stopped. Have you charted before so that you know your cycles well? Definitely have the whole panel done, but I'm wondering if it could also be something like progesterone deficiency.

In my case, testing showed absolutely nothing. Best guesses were 1) Slight progesterone deficiency; 2) Slight clotting issue; or 3) bad sperm quality. In my pregnancy that was successful, I did progesterone supplements and baby aspirin to address 1 and 2. I didn't do the progesterone this time around and did lose the pregnancy.

sandiego715 · October 2015

Ok. Its just so hard because no heartbeat yet. I feel like im alone in this for having 3 without heart beats. I did do the progesterone and aspirin and i ended getting a subchorionic hematoma. I guess the only way i will know is after testing. Makes me sick to my stomach that it may be bad. Thank you.just want it so bad. My mom and sis never had issues.

AppleRidge · October 2015

I do know one woman with multiple early losses whose doctor suggested that she was ovulating to early for the eggs to properly mature. Another point in favor of tracking cycles, I guess. Clomid and an IUI were ultimately her solution.

I know how it feels to be alone in the family. My mom had 3 kids and no m/c and my sister had 6 pregnancies and none.

sandiego715 · October 2015

Ok. That gives me hope that there was an answer. Thank you

queenklau · October 2015

Hello ladies, sorry for your losses. I found out yesterday I had my second mmc very similarly to the first, HB at 6-7 weeks and then no HB at 9-10 weeks. Doctor will test both baby and I this time around. I hope that we find answers, although as many of you had said, there may not be any...
I really hope all of us move on the pregnant board as soon as we are ready! I hope we can stay in touch as we go through this arduous journey.

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