TTC after 35
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Sex Swing **not for the faint of hearts!**
happyktmom
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in TTC after 35
Did I get your attention? HA!
So, after having a slight temp dip this morning and having tons of EWCM for the first time EVER! Tonight has got to be the night! I tried to catch DH last night and though he was willing to BD, he couldn't pull the trigger. I feel like that always happens when I need him to be able to go for it! Anyway, I need to spice things up a bit. We constantly have sex in the same position - me on top and that works for both of us usually. I have been talking about hanging our sex swing (purchased a Slumber Party several years ago and never used) and I'm thinking tonight's the night.
Now that you all think I am the kinkiest person you know, I will ask - has anyone hung one of these things before?
So, after having a slight temp dip this morning and having tons of EWCM for the first time EVER! Tonight has got to be the night! I tried to catch DH last night and though he was willing to BD, he couldn't pull the trigger. I feel like that always happens when I need him to be able to go for it! Anyway, I need to spice things up a bit. We constantly have sex in the same position - me on top and that works for both of us usually. I have been talking about hanging our sex swing (purchased a Slumber Party several years ago and never used) and I'm thinking tonight's the night.
Now that you all think I am the kinkiest person you know, I will ask - has anyone hung one of these things before?
Re: Sex Swing **not for the faint of hearts!**
Once it's set up, designate some non-sexy time for him to help you get the seat and stirrups set at the right level. It's going to be awkward and funny, and it may be difficult to maintain "sexy time" attitude while all that's going on. Just say, help me get this set up, then we'll go figure out dinner, and come back to it tonight.
It can encourage some vigorous baby dancing. Make sure you have plenty of fertility-friendly lube.
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017
Have fun, you'll love it!
Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid DH(43)Low T/ED
MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012 TTC #2 since 04/2014
BFP 8/26/2016
ME:37 DH:30
MARRIED: 07/19/2010, TTC #1: 07/19/2010
DX: PCOS, First IUI: 10/01/2015, BFN