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Monilee1017 · October 2015

Flame Free Friday Confession - warning not always flame free.

Theliops · October 2015

I've been telling my mom I'm way busier than I am just to avoid having lunch or tea with her. All she does is stress me out about how little time I have left - "do you have this done yet? when are you getting that done?"

To give you an idea about what this woman is like, the first question she asked when I told her I was pregnant at 7 weeks is "so who will deliver your baby?" At that point my only concern was making it past the first trimester and actually staying pregnant!

Eventually I'm going to have to have lunch with her but for now I'm just "way too busy."

MaMinette13 · October 2015

My mom is in town (I live in CA, my parents live in FL) and I have been letting her do everything around the house for me! She cooks, cleans, and has done all the new baby laundry, just to name a few. I feel bad, but I know I don't have the energy to get it all done, and she loves taking care of me!

carlyhammond · October 2015

I'm laying in bed for most of today.
I am doing laundry then getting back in bed, I plan to continue to do this for a few hours, maybe all day.
Maybe eventually I'll do things in the nursery- but I don't have high hopes.

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PedsIsHardcore · October 2015

I hate dealing with car insurance. SO and I finally got a policy together and I don't know what happened, but some how someone else with the same name as me but different city, state and DOB keeps pulling up in my driving record. It's taking extra time because they are trying to take it off their records so I can get cheaper insurance. Blah! Hot mess and a half!. I have to call the DMV Monday to see what my state can do.

maureenmce · October 2015

Oh I have a big confession I've been feeling really bad about - my husband and I haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant! So... for like, nearly 22 weeks. Yikes.

I'm high risk and at the beginning I was terrified of a miscarriage, and then once we seemed out of the woods on that, my whole area down there has been feeling really sensitive/painful and I just haven't wanted to. My husband has been GREAT about this and hasn't pressured me at all, but I feel terrible about it. Gonna try to change this this weekend and enjoy the next 14 weeks but it's hard to work up the enthusiasm because I just don't feel like it since being pregnant! (Which sucks and again, makes me feel guilty.)

Whew. Okay, feels better to at least get that out. I've been feeling so terrible about it!

Knottie82267345 · October 2015

@maureenmce I'm right there with you. Me and my SO have had sex but normally it's because I feel bad. Especially since before becoming pregnant I was always on and he wasn't as much. Now the roles have reversed. My problem in the beginning was being afraid of miscarriage, since we lost a baby previous to this pregnancy, and my nausea was always worse at bed time. Now though it's that I'm way more sensitive down there and I'm not as lubricated as I use to be. I did buy lube (never needed it before) and that helped a ton last time. I suggest trying that. It might help with some of the discomfort. I hope it gets better for you guys!!!

carlyhammond · October 2015

maureenmce said:
Oh I have a big confession I've been feeling really bad about - my husband and I haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant! So... for like, nearly 22 weeks. Yikes. I'm high risk and at the beginning I was terrified of a miscarriage, and then once we seemed out of the woods on that, my whole area down there has been feeling really sensitive/painful and I just haven't wanted to. My husband has been GREAT about this and hasn't pressured me at all, but I feel terrible about it. Gonna try to change this this weekend and enjoy the next 14 weeks but it's hard to work up the enthusiasm because I just don't feel like it since being pregnant! (Which sucks and again, makes me feel guilty.)

Whew. Okay, feels better to at least get that out. I've been feeling so terrible about it!

I am in the same boat - I'm not high risk, but intercourse is painful! I wish that it was more enjoyable but I cannot get into it. My poor SO has only got the deed maybe 10 times- I'm almost 30 weeks.

it makes me feel so guilty that I feel like I can't satisfy his needs. -sad sigh-

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maureenmce · October 2015

@Knottie82267345 and @carlyhammond - Glad to know I'm not the only one struggling with this! Makes me feel less alone/terrible anyway.

mamakculb · October 2015

I'm right there with you ladies. I was on pelvic rest for around 8-10 weeks due to a low lying placenta. Now I feel horny but I don't really like the feeling of being touched and repetitive movement just sickens me. So yea, it's really not something I want to do. I've done it a few times anyway and I know he's feeling a bit neglected, but he's being a good sport about it. Going to try to overcome it for his bday this weekend, but it'll probably be pretty one sided in the enjoyment. I totally envy the women who have crazy libidos and fun sex while pregnant!

PedsIsHardcore · October 2015

I don't want sex or to be touched. Most days I don't feel good at all and have nausea. SO and I haven't had sex since finding out. It's only because I don't want to be touched at all. SO is fine because its not like its for forever or anything.

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