Hi veteran moms!
I ended up having a c-section with my first and remember how painful the recovery was. I know I am going to have another c-section with this baby so I want to be a little more prepared this time around. I ran across the c-panty and belly bands online and was wondering if anyone has used them before. If so, I'd like to get your feedback on whether it helped or not.
Thanks!
Re: C-section
I don't remember my recovery being super difficult, a big key was getting up to wall as soon as possible.
I haven't really decided on if I will do a VBAC or RCS this go around. Last time was an emergency and premature. I'm hoping for Full term this time, it'll be our last babe so I feel like it's my only shot at trying it "normally" but part of me figures that I have the scar alreay, might as well use it again .
Just learned I have to have a c-section on Thursday due to health reasons, just wondering if other STM could share there recovery stories
I was on 2 different ones and asked how often I could have them. 1 was every 6 hours and the other was every 4. Literally every time a nurse came in I reminded them I wanted my next round of pills. You usually have to ask. They don't always just bring them.
Then when I got home I set alarms for both. I was never in any pain as a result. I slowly weaned off of them at about a week and a half PP.
I never had that feeling of my stomach falling apart and I think it'd because I got up and got moving as soon as I could. Just moving from bed to chair to feed my daughter. I think that helped a lot.
Side lying for nursing helped a lot when we got home. I could lay in bed and not use any muscles or have the baby pressing on me.
Ask for help and do not expect to entertain people. If you have family who won't be helpful tell them you need 2 weeks. Tell your husband he will need to step up. If people offer to bring food or something take them up on it but warn them they can't stay long.
Once we got home I basically took it as easy as possible for the first week.
I didn't change a diaper for 2 weeks. My husband would get my daughter at night when she cried and change her so I could go to the bathroom and get water and go sit in the rocking chair. We had a nice system that helped me a lot.
Get stool softeners now and start taking them the day before surgery. You don't want to use those muscles.
Get some granny panties that go well above the incision so they don't bother you. And big high yoga pants that don't touch the scar either.
Being that yours are planned you should feel a lot better than someone who labored. I was in labor for 2 days before mine so everything hurt. Even then, it really wasn't horrible. The more you get your blood flowing and moving early the better but no need to over exert yourself either.
Walk the same day! My second child ended up in the nicu and I couldn't wait on nurses to make time to take me. I was getting up on my own and walking hours later. (With my first I didn't walk until second day and it was so very hard)
Belly binder. Ask for it immediately and wear it constantly. Helps when moving, coughing, and laughing like you wouldn't believe.
Avoid all carbonated beverages for at least a week. I never follow this rule and ALWAYS regret it. The gas pains aren't worth it.
Stool softeners asap. After that first post op poo things will feel better.
Ibuprofen is your friend.
Listen to your body. If it tells you something doesn't feel good then stop. (I know I said get up and walk but listen to your body. Don't overdo it.)