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So incredibly angry

stephiesheldorkstephiesheldork member
in October 2015 Moms
I don't know why I'm posting this here, I just cannot believe this. I slept in pretty late this morning.. Or afternoon. I woke up around 12:15 with 7 missed calls from my husband. I check my voicemail and he left me a message that said (or rather, yelled) "why the fuck do you have a cellphone?! Goddamn, answer the fucking phone. You're phones not there so you can play bullshit ass games all day. It's there so you can answer when somebody calls you. I love you, bye." Perhaps I'm more angry than I should be, but what in the hell makes him think that it's okay to talk to your wife that's 9 months pregnant like that? Especially since he knows that I put my phone on silent when I'm going to sleep so I don't get woken up with a bunch of calls asking me if I'm giving birth yet. Just not how I wanted to wake up today.
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  • Dawnmarie0310Dawnmarie0310 member
    Not cool at all :( sorry
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  • satori15satori15 member
    Sorry- if it makes you feel any better my husband says almost exactly the same thing! I'm sure he was just worried that he couldn't reach you because he loves you and knows you could go into labor at any time.
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  • RaijapattersonRaijapatterson member
    I don't even know what I'd do if my husband talked to me like that, pregnant or not! I'm sorry. What a horrible thing to have to deal with!
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  • VioletandRoseVioletandRose member
    I agree, pregnant or not, it is NOT ok to talk to you like that! I hope you don't take that lying down, tell him what an @ss he is and that is completely unacceptable!
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  • violetginvioletgin member
    Not cool. As s general rule, DH and I don't curse at each other, although we certainly have an affinity for the 4 letter words. He probably WAS worried, but he needs to reel in the yelling and calm the eff down. Talking to you like that isn't going to make you want to listen to him, just the opposite actually. It's hard enough being 9 mos pregnant without your husband being a twerp. Glad you got some rest though!
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  • tate62610tate62610 member
    Pregnant or not, DH and I never speak to each other that way. That's so disrespectful. He's probably worried but that's not reason to lose his shit like that.
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  • tfk0912tfk0912 member
    Can you put ever one else on silent and his calls with a different ring tone.. That's what I do because I know it would worry my husband if I did not answer after that many times.. I am not saying it's ok that he was yelling and cussing..
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  • MrsN092714MrsN092714 member
    If I tried to call my husband 7 times and he didn't answer this late in my pregnancy I would freak. I am guessing that it was completly out of worry. Should he have swore at you, no. But like PP said, I would give him shit for talking to me like that, then I would apologize for missing seven of his calls. Seven is a lot. You don't call 7 times unless your worried
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