Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

October 15th

Hi, I just want to send everyone here a hug, today is October 15th, pregnancy and infant loss remembrance day and I am having an especially emotional day, as I had my first miscarriage exactly a year ago (Oct 17th). Let´s all light a candle at 7pm tonight in honor of our angel babies, whom we all miss so much!!! 



Much love to all of you,

Me: 38 DH: 42.
Married: 9/2008.
4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
12/2010 - DS born.
8/2014-TTC#2 
10/2014 BFP
10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
5/2015 BFP
8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
DOR
Hypothyroidism
MTHFR
DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
AMH .65
8/2016 FET #1 BFN
9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


Re: October 15th

  • I have my candle lit for wave of light this evening.
    Thinking of my baby lost in July.. Love to you all x
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  • Today has been an emotional one for me too. I lost my little angel back in March of this year. She/He would have been due at the end of this month. Hugs to all. I will be lighting a candle at 7pm.

    DH: 35 | Me: 29
    BFP #1- 07.25.12, EDD: 03.24.13, DD born 03.26.13
    Surprised BFP #2- 02.25.15, EDD: 10/29/15 |*m/c 7w4d, D&C 04.02.2015 
    BFP #3- 01.21.16, EDD: 09.29.26 |*m/c-blighted ovum 2.19.16 8w1d, D&C 03.04.16 
    BFP #4- 05.24.16, EDD: 02.04.17 |*natural m/c-  07.08.16, 9w1d
    BFP #5- 09/25/16, EDD: 06.07.17 GROW
    , BABY, GROW! 

  • Thank you darling, Hugs right back to you. Crazy thing is we lost our babies on the exact same date of last year. I'm sorry for you're loss, I'm having an extremely emotional day today as well. If you want someone to talk to I'm here.
  • Thank you, I am so sorry for your losses... I just lit 2 candles for my angel babies, who will never be forgotten. Happy to have you ladies who understand when no one else seems to... *hugs*

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


  • I knew October was awareness month but the date being October 15 is a kick in the pants - it's my husband's birthday and we recently (10/5) had a stillbirth of one of our twins.
  • Just loss my baby October 16, 2015
    He was a healthy baby boy in my womb, seeing him in ultrasound with life and with heart beat of 168 but nature takes its place and took him, my heart is broken and his death is just like death to my heart, my loving angel boy passed away. He didn't survive as the bag of water descended in my cervix and they couldn't do anything about it.
    Lighting a candle to all our angels above,
    Heaven listens to all parents who gave their all love.
    My heart cries, with tears of grief
    Sorrow and love with out loud
    Sharing this moment, one candle to our little bub
  • edited October 2015
    @rue:d My sympathies to your husband! It's my birthday, too, so I'm like: yeah I get to be constantly reminded of my loss today AND reminded that I'm another year older with no baby? I do think it's important for awareness, though. It's one of those "but not in MY neighborhood" things.


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