Babies on the Brain

WTO or TWW- Monday Oct. 12th

Month/Cycle:5/4

CD/DPO: 19/0

TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): TTA, opk... cm.. temping

Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: Still no positive opk and it is so frustrating. My cycles are getting longer after the bcps, I am so jealous of people with short cycles. I thought I was going to O on cd 17. Don't know why... either way we were going to wait to TTC until November 15th and I thought for sure we would be waiting for AF by then... but if I keep ovulating on CD20 or later then this will be the last cycle avoiding. Although we may still avoid the week leading up to the 15th. Ugh! my mother had 48 day cycles and mine are around 32-36 ... I should count my blessings but I just wished it would be different.

GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall? Boots and leaves!







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GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall?

Re: WTO or TWW- Monday Oct. 12th

  • Cycle 5/calendar day 25

    TTC: Sex

    We're most likely out this month, it's been too crazy of a month at work for weeknight sex...

    I love hoodies and the smell of fires burning when we walk through our neighborhood. The leaves are pretty but a bitch to clean up! My first year in our house I had more than 80 bags!! I've become more efficient, but it's still my least favorite chore.
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  • @als1982, I feel you on leaf clean up. We live in an apartment right now so we don't have to clean them up thankfully. I feel you on work being busy! We plan on TTC around the holidays. Crazy I know.
  • Month/Cycle: 1 / 1

    CD/DPO: 19 / 2

    TTC: Opk,temping

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: This was my first month temping, and it has left me so confused! I got a positive Opk on Tuesday and Wednesday (and we made sure to have sex), and then negative Opk on Thursday and Friday. Based on this I predicted my ovulation to be on Thursday. But my temperature didn't spike until Sunday morning. That means i probably ovulated on Saturday, right? If this is the case I have probably ovulated later than I have thought all along, and I'm scared that my luteal phase is to short to actually conceive...

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall?: All the beautiful colours! And wearing huge wool cardis and sweaters...


  • Month/Cycle: 4/4, WTO

    TTA until late November (which, if cycles stay consistent, means early December)

    Rants/Raves/etc. All's good here! Feeling less nervous and more excited about starting soon. Finally had a 10 day LP last month, perhaps due to starting PNVs?

    GTKY: I just love everything about fall. The weather is perfect in October where I live. I love the leaves, sweater/fleece weather, Halloween, all of it!
  • @Hulabalu how long was your LP?
  • HulabaluHulabalu member
    edited October 2015
    @Katm89LP= Lutheal Phase?
    I'm only at 2 DPO according to my temps, so I don't know yet. But previously I have estimated it to be 12 days, but that is based on the assumption that the first negative opk day is O day.
  • @Hulabalu I operate on the same assumption from Opks. 12 day LP is not bad! You have to have atleast 10 day LP to conceive.
  • @Katm89 It is going to be interesting to see how long it is this time, when it seems like I O later than I thought. Hopefully it will still be 10 days or more. It is kinda strange that I only had EWCM on Wednesday and Thursday if I O'd on Saturday. Both Friday and Saturday were pretty dry days. I thought I had figured out how this body works, but now I'm just not sure about anything...

    Annoyed at my self for only having sex Tuesday and Wednesday, if I actually didn't O until Saturday...
  • Month/Cycle: 5

    CD/DPO: 10

    TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): TTC BBT, CM, BD

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: trying to not stress.

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall? Nothing. I don't like fall. It's too cold. (For the record, cold = anything under 74° to me! Lol)
    Me: 28
    DH: 29
    Married: 7/4/15
    TTC #1 since marriage
    BFP 11/17/15 -- EDD 7/31/16


  • Month/Cycle: 1

    CD/DPO: CD27

    TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): NTNP right now

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk:  I still haven't had any sort of bleeding since going off BCP 4 weeks ago.  My temperatures haven't been doing much of anything exciting... they went a little crazy over the weekend because I was on vacation and my sleeping and wine-drinking affected them so I'm hoping they stabilize again now that I'm home.  **TMI** did anyone experience a large amount of EWCM and watery CM for the whole month after stopping birth control?  I know it's normal to have more discharge right after stopping BCP, but I feel like a constantly have it and FF is confused about it. 

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall?  This is my first fall living in Florida so I'll see how it goes... usually I love the leaves changing and the jeans and sweatshirt weather! (I'm from the Midwest)
  • @Hulabalu, its not strange that you had dry days before O. I listened to an interview with Toni and she said sometimes women have a better chance conceiving not right near O... just wherever there was the best cm.. so sometimes ppl miss their window bec they don't pay attention to mucus.
  • @Katm89 Thanks, that's very interesting info. 
  • @Hulabalu, you should look up "fertility friday podcast"
    they interview toni and she talks about how the temps don't matter as much as cm if you are TTC and how the temps matter more if you are TTA and if you make sure to have sex on a ewcm day, then you have a better chance of conceiving than if you had sex around O because sometimes the fertile mucus isn't present and the sperm cannot get there.
  • Month/Cycle:  2/2

    CD/DPO:  14

    TTC( what are you doing to "try"):  Daily sex, vitamins, OPKs, CM

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk:  I had a positive digital OPK yesterday and the day before, and it's negative today. So because I don't temp I'm just going to assume I ovulated yesterday (I also had telltale ovulation pain on the right side yesterday all day). Yay!! We managed to have sex every day for the past five days and we will again today, so I'm feeling hopeful!

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall?  The fresh, cool air, hot chocolate, and corn mazes!
  • @EasterEggs Sounds like you've got your whole fertile window covered! Fingers crossed! 
  • @Mokay19 I think everyone is different but I had tons of ewcm leading up to o my first cycle. It looked like I blew my nose in my underwear. I havent had mucus like that since. If it makes you feel better I'm CD20 with no sign of Ovulating and I think I may have a annovulatory cycle... and we were going to try next cycle... it could be two months before this cycle ends. :(
  • @Katm89 I was just telling DH that I've never wished for a period in my life but I just want this cycle to end or do something so I can figure things out!  I talked to my mom and she said that when she was younger, her cycles were always around 45 days and my older sister has always been about 40 days so I keep trying to tell myself not to stress or worry.... obviously that isn't going too well though.. And my chart was so pretty and consistent until vacation which added some weird temps and then coming back, my temps have been about 0.4 lower than "normal"....sigh...
  • First time posting on this board! I am usually on TTGP =)

    Month/Cycle: 3/3


    CD: 8

    TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): HIO EOD

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: Yay I am so glad I found another board to participate in! Hi everyone!, I guess this can serve as my intro to all of you ladies here =) . I just got off of BCP in August and started to temp this month to see if I am ovulating when those OPKs are positive. I am happy that my DH is really into charting and etc too so he doesn't mine me waking him up at 6am everyday. Nothing else for me really except waiting for my FW to start!

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall? The temperature and the leaves changing color =)
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  • Month/Cycle: 1/1

    CD/DPO: 16/0

    TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): NTNP, but already tracking some things, just not scheduling sex. BBT & CM

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: Went off the pill on 27th and never got my withdrawal bleed, so my FF chart and such is hard to set as it didn't have AF to start it. Got a temp dip and small rise CD12-14, but then it dropped back down, but now I've got EWCM so we'll see if I do O. I'm worried after 13 years of pills it might take a while. Kinda looking for AF just to feel "normal" again.

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall? Hm, this fall I'm moving to FL from Chicago area (moving in 5 days), so I'm interested to see if it's pretty down there but not so freaking cold & damp as up here. Crossing fingers! Favorite thing is probably all the apple cider, corn mazes, and pretty much everything Halloween. :)
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    Me: 33
    DH: 32
    Married 7/18/15
    1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
    Team green turned BLUE!
    2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 
    Team green turned PINK!
    Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green

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  • @Mokay19 hang in there, I just got a pos opk last night... with no cm lol ( can you tell my cycle is wack) and another pos opk this morning so I will be ovulating soon! Its great to be able to ask parents about their cycles. My mother said stress affected her cycles and would sometimes be 2 months long bec of stress. She normally ovulated on CD28 to 35... so, long cycles are in my history but, she said she got pregnant the first try with both my sis and I. I was shocked. I asked her How long she tried and she was like... "I didn't really I just let it happen during my FW and then I was pregnant" and she went on to say it was so easy. I'm like damn! I guess if I have an easy time its a good silver lining with dealing with the long erratic cycles. My cm and O day did not match up together this time. I think my cycles will get longer and longer as I move away from bcps. My first charting cycle I O'd on CD18, and then CD15( i thought it would stay early) and then CD 20... right now I'm on CD21
  • @RideNRunMomma I feel like we're the same haha.  I went off the pill on 9/16 and still haven't any sort of bleeding at all.  Since I stopped the pill at the end of a pack (when a normal person would have a period but I didn't), I put the day that I took my last pill as my period day.  So now it tells me that I'm on CD28--which basically just means that I've been off the pill for 28 days for me.  I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do, but it seemed to make sense to me!  Also, my first 2 weeks off the pill I had So Much EWCM.  I've read that this is normal coming off the pill and that your body will kind of flush it out...with that being said, I am still having a lot of EWCM at day 28 off the pill (but I'm chalking that up to my PCOS and my body just continually prepping and trying to ovulate... who knows though!). 

    I, also, am from the Chicago area and moved to Florida 6 months ago (wow I didn't realize it had been so long until now!).  If you mind me asking, where in Florida will you be headed? I totally understand if you don't want to answer that!


    @Katm89 since Amazon sells the 100 pack of OPK's, I am determined to get a positive! haha I will test every day until it darkens!  I always (the last 20 days) get 2 lines, but never as dark or darker than the control.  And I had never expected to talk to my mom about it, but since she came to visit and saw my thermometer and immediately went "oh are you doing natural family planning?" I just explained that I'm trying to figure out my body and she told me all of her experiences.  It was surprisingly nice!

  • @Mokay19 I have the amazon opks too!
  • @mokay19 We'll be in the Tampa Bay area. Unfortunately, temps here will be in the 30s on Sat when we load the truck, EW! Still waiting to O, lol. On the plus side, I haven't had to use any menstrual products in three months now (didn't get withdrawal bleeding for the two months before stopping either). At least I'm getting EWCM now - I didn't have your experience coming off, so hopefully O will come sometime....
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    Me: 33
    DH: 32
    Married 7/18/15
    1st born at 35+4 on 6/6/16
    Team green turned BLUE!
    2nd born at 38+6 on 8/30/18 
    Team green turned PINK!
    Due with #3 on 6/6/20 Team Green

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  • Month/Cycle: 3/3

    CD/DPO: 18

    TTC( what are you doing to "try") or TTA(when are you trying): TTC: PNV, CM Sex EOD, Temps

    Rant/Rave/Chart Stalk: I think I O'd a day or so ago.  If I enter in high temps for tomorrow and Sunday FF gives CH on CD 17.  

    GTKY: Favorite thing about Fall? Cooler temps, even though it was in the 90s yesterday.  

    TTC #1 since August 2015
    BFP #1 January 28, 2016
    EDD October 3, 2016
    Felicity Joy, born September 2, 2016
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    TTC #2 Since August 2020
    BFP #2 September 11, 2020
    EDD May 23, 2021





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