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Leave me alone

Midgetsmommy13Midgetsmommy13 member
in November 2015 Moms
Today has been one of those days where I'm extremely pissy and bitchy. Things from months ago randomly popped into my head and now it's like I want to go up to people and rip them from head to toe about shit they did that's bothering me.

I've managed to keep the hormones at bay this pregnancy. Only occasionally getting emotional. But these past few weeks it's been anger. Nothing but anger.
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    This has been me all day... Especially when my husband came home.. I can't exactly lift the laundry basket to take it downstairs anymore and he doesn't seem to get that through his head.. And I got good news that since my numbers have been spot on and really good that I only have to check twice a day now.. When I told him my exciting news he was like "oh ok" ..... I understand he doesn't understand the excitement that I'm feeling but can he Atleast try to pretend to know?
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  • Midgetsmommy13Midgetsmommy13 member
    I told my husband today it's best not to talk to me for awhile because I'm not a good person right now. My MIL made a snarky little comment and I bit her head off basically saying she better remove my name from her mouth Bc I'm the only one who's supported her on her medical issues. And you know what? Today after Costco my husband left the cart behind the car... I had to move it. Why the fuck do I need to move it? You can't do it? You know I feel like shit but you couldn't do that extra little thing?
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  • rebeccalynn27rebeccalynn27 member
    Oh how I feel your pain today. I have been overly emotional the past two days. Crying over nothing. I have felt extra horrible today between my back hurting and this headache. DH told me I've been complaining too much and I just need to relax. I hate when people tell me to relax! I have been flared up from my fibro for weeks now and the anxiety and pain from it is making it near impossible to relax. But thank you for your advice. I would have never thought to try to relax.
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  • rubirubi89rubirubi89 member
    Go online. Buy something. Sometimes that helps. Good luck!
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  • blessingcomingblessingcoming member
    I can relate. I've been emotional and stressed out the last few weeks. At my last appointment, my blood pressure had spiked a bit, just enough for my midwife to be slightly concerned and to make a note to keep a close eye on it. I was sent home with orders to drink plenty and cut back salt. Ok well, my sister in law is SOOO hard for me to get along with. She makes snide comments like 'well, I know they say vomiting during pregnancy is normal and all, but I think it is a result of an underlying health problem.' (I've been unlucky enough to experience morning sickness this whole pregnancy and to hear that from someone who has never been pregnant and doesn't have one stinking clue about it is really hard) I'm also making her wedding cake and the little jerk is so hard to deal with. From changing her mind a million times to picking a fight and yelling at my husband, and then leaving the room without an apology (my husband never even yelled back), I'm totally fed up with her. Also, my husband and I are contemplating moving, but the place my husband is looking at is half the size of where we are currently at. It's a stressful decision for me, and I feel like I'm gonna go crazy with being all stressed out and I know that's the last thing I need with the blood pressure thing. To top it all off, I made some random comment today about how I've really swollen up this past week and really am hoping all is well with BP at my next appointment. And my husband says 'well just quit eating salt. You don't take this serious so if you get preeclampsia it's your fault.' Oh man!!!!! My husband is usually so sweet but he totally doesn't know that I HAVE been laying off salt(and sugar)...ONE time I forgot and salted my food at the table without thinking! And like preeclampsia can be someone's FAULT!!!! I'm so done with this whole sister in law wedding, moving decision, baby coming and no sleep life right now. :-P. Ok. I'm done ranting. Sorry for the awful long pity party reply. OP, I can totally sympathize.
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  • Midgetsmommy13Midgetsmommy13 member
    Is okay my SIL is currently throwing a temper tantrum over where we are taking my Inlaws to eat on Saturday for their anniversary. It's all about her and her boyfriend and where THEY want to eat. Not about the fact that #1 my husband has an off duty shift that we have to work around #2 it has to also be okay with my step kids mother Bc it's her time and my Inlaws want the boys there #3 and we were trying to take the Inlaws somewhere different since we go out so often, we were looking for a change of pace.

    The place *i* picked out is on top of a mountain with gorgeous views of Phoenix... And half of us have never been there and a couple of them haven't been for years.
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  • Cook3133Cook3133 member
    chadsfiance said:

    I have those days. I really just want people to stop telling me that I better get some sleep now when I can. When I can??? You actually think I can sleep with this belly, all that additional weight, back and hand pain, peeing often and reflux? And even if I could sleep, it's not like I can stockpile it for later. "Oh the baby has been up all night, good thing I 'slept while I could' because that's so helpful now."

    Ugh. Sorry ladies, I'm a crabby bitch. I don't want to be at work today.

    I laughed at my midwife when she said to take it easy, relaxe, get some sleep....... I have 3 kids, 5,3,1 plus I babysit 2 others 5 & 3, all boys. WTH is rest?? I will admit I have been extremely lucky this pregnancy and sleeping great at night, first time since all 4 pregnancies. I am guessing it's because of everything I do during the day I am completely wiped out.
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  • mrssuperman918mrssuperman918 member
    If one more person at work says "Oh no baby yet? You look like you're ready to pop her out already!" I'm going to rip their head off.
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  • AmyReneTAmyReneT member
    Ya, the "compliment" I got today from someone at work- "Wow, you look really pregnant today!" ummm.... thank you?? I have been for AWHILE now, no need to point it out.
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  • mza919mza919 member
    I really want to hurt the next person that says, "get used to not sleeping, you won't get any after baby comes". Well no sh*%/ Like it's too much to ask for some sleep, and sorry I look tired not really anything I can do about the bags under my eyes.
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  • RVAMommaRVAMomma member
    I am tired of being asked if I'm having twins. I have only gained 25 lbs and was not overweight before. And no my baby is not big. Stop staring I am not that large
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    mrssuperman918 said:

    If one more person at work says "Oh no baby yet? You look like you're ready to pop her out already!" I'm going to rip their head off.

    Omg yes!!!!! I can't stand when people ask me that!!!
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  • AbonsutAbonsut member
    edited October 2015
    People have started apologizing to me when they call me now. I might be a little snippy these days... also the next person who asks when baby will be here is owed an earful. And if they comment on my size, a throat punch.

    Edited for stupid spelling
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  • BlondeMomma92BlondeMomma92 member
    i'm starting to come down with a cold, and I know there isn't a whole lot i can do about it. so i've been irritable all day. also i know this is so silly and probably seems like a total first world problem, but i've been very frustrated with target.com listing color options for products they supposedly have in stock, and then say they don't have it and it isn't sold in stores or apparently online either. why would you list a product to then say oh just kidding we've never had it to begin with?! 
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