Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
MillerTime0513
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Intro
MillerTime0513
member
Hi all, I was a regular poster on TTGP before my daughter was born in 2011. We were TTA but surprised with a pregnancy in September, only to have a m/c at nine weeks. I had a D&C last Wednesday, and my follow up appointment is scheduled for next Monday.
I'm not sure what to say other than I'm a little lost right now. We were never sure if we were going to have another child, but now I feel like I want to try again and MH is not on the same page. I know it's very soon after, but the arguments he brings up are the same ones he had prior to the m/c.
I'm the type of person who is usually in control and doesn't like the unexpected. I don't like feeling helpless, and that is how I feel right now. I take Zoloft for anxiety/mood swings already, but I worry about struggling through this.
Anyway, I guess I'm just here to introduce myself and hopefully find some support and offer some as well. Hopefully I can navigate these new boards since things look a little different than when I was here before!
ETA - here's my full story on my blog if you want to read it. https://millertimemom.blogspot.com/2015/10/october.html
Re: Intro
I can totally relate with the feeling of helplessness and vulnerability. I too like to be in control, and the vulnerability associated with this experience can be excruciating.
Wishing you peace. Happy to chat if you need support.
BFP #1: 08/17/2012 DD1 born 05/01/2013
BFP #2: 07/31/2015 M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)