My LO's birthday is 5 days before Christmas, and for her first birthday I'd like to request donations to her college fund in lieu of gifts, if people want to give her anything at all. She'll get so many gifts for Christmas and won't know the difference especially for this birthday, so I'm wondering if people think this is tacky or offensive in any way? I obviously think it's genius and practical, but am interested in other's thoughts.
Re: First birthday gift - is this faux pas??