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Worst 2 days of my life

sbodman82sbodman82 member
in December 2015 Moms
I have to say this somewhere people would feel my pain.

Tuesday my bf went to the hosptial because of a saddle blood clot in his lungs. No signs no warning came out of nowhere. If he didnt get on an ambulance he would have died. He is baffling doctors on how he survived such a severe blood clot. Now he is in the hospital and im running back and forth i missed my first doctors appointment this month im worried if the stress effected the baby i am such a mess. I am fighting not to just cry all day everyday..... I dont know how i am going to make it until december
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  • crisobrewhacrisobrewha member
    I'm so sorry to hear about your BF but am very happy for all of you that he pulled through.  That is some very good news!  Stay strong and lean on those close to you.  Don't be afraid to ask for help.  Prayers for you and your family.
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  • taysuntaysun member
    I'm sorry this is happening and you're having to deal with it right now. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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  • Jess0813Jess0813 member
    Count your blessings instead of being stressed. I know its tough to deal with but my mom died when i was 16 from a blood clot in her lung. He is lucky to be alive!
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  • Fsu06FsuFsu06Fsu member
    Hey Mama-To-Be... This is a stressful and scary situation but you are strong enough to get through it. You will be able to control your stress and protect your baby. You will be able to tend to your BF. You can do it all. Even if it feels crazy overwhelming.... Have faith I yourself that you CAN handle it. ❤️ Sending love and prayers.
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  • victoria2015babyvictoria2015baby member
    This happened to my brother and we are very lucky that he pulled through. It it defenitly scary and a horrible thing to go through. Hang in there, and if you are a person who believes in prayer...keep it up! Keeping positive will help you, baby and your SO.
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  • TaylovesbradTaylovesbrad member
    That is so traumatic!!! I'm so beyond glad he is ok. Hope you have family and friends all around you taking care of both of you.
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  • ChiccoBeanzChiccoBeanz member
    I'm sorry this happened to you, but I am glad that he is getting the care that he needs. It's easier said than done, but please stay calm, reschedule your appointment and do some relaxing things to help keep you in a good spot. It's okay to cry, and your feelings are understandable. Just take it one day at a time. Best of luck and keep us posted.
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  • UwannalalaUwannalala member
    My husband was diagnosed with a brain tumor around this time last pregnancy out of nowhere. It was terrifying. We had no idea what was wrong when he was admitted to icu.

    Your baby will be fine, dont add one more worry thinking about that! Just remember to take care of yourself and thank goodness it wasn't worse.
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  • sbodman82sbodman82 member
    Thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers. I know we are strong enough to get through this.
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    Just like everybody has sad, and just trying to take things one step at a time. Just put 1 foot in front of the next and that's how you will get through this. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way but have trust in the fact that you will both get through this. And baby will be just fine. Take care of yourself ❤️
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  • colsen4colsen4 member
    I'm so sorry but am glad he is ok. Just remember to take deep breaths and put one foot in front of the other.
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  • AlejandraN2AlejandraN2 member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this but happy that your bf pulled through. You'll both be ok and so will the baby. Thoughts and prayers to you. 
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  • RSB1982RSB1982 member
    That's scary stuff, I'm glad he's okay.  How long will he be in the hospital?  Hopefully he'll be home soon and things can 'normalize'.  I'll be thinking of you.
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  • KatC129KatC129 member

    The important thing is he survived and its sounds like the doctors are doing all they can to help him recover and that he will be ok. While I have not shared your exact experience, a few years ago I went through a sudden health trauma with my now husband, so I understand the worry that comes with hoping your loved one will be ok. 

     You will make it and your baby will be ok. Be strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  • Mother0fDragonsMother0fDragons member
    Glad to hear that your bf pulled through! I'm sorry that you had to go through this. All of you are in my toughts and prayers. Like pp's have said, just take things on day at a time.
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  • gardensparrowgardensparrow member
    Wow, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I know everything must feel really stressful right now. So, I just wanted to say I'm praying for you, your BF, and the baby. Hang in there and lean on others if you can!
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  • ealiskaealiska member
    I can't even imagine how you must feel- I was a hot mess before DH went in for an outpatient hernia surgery! I'm glad he's alright-take care of yourself and lean on family and friends as much as you can right now!
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  • BostonBaby1BostonBaby1 member
    sbodman82 said:

    Update: he is out of icu and maybe discharged by monday

    Yay!!!
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  • groovylocksgroovylocks member
    I'm sorry this is happening to you and your family right now but so glad he's pulling through and on the track to be discharged. I realize this was the worst time of your life but you will find the days following, with him home, recovering and near you, will be some of the best <3
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  • ChiccoBeanzChiccoBeanz member
    BostonBaby1 said:

    sbodman82 said:

    Update: he is out of icu and maybe discharged by monday

    Yay!!!
    This is great news!
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  • angetralalaangetralala member
    sbodman82 said:
    Update: he is out of icu and maybe discharged by monday
    Just saw this whole post - happy to see the good news!!!
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  • gardensparrowgardensparrow member
    Wonderful news! Thanks for the update!
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  • taysuntaysun member
    So glad he is doing well!
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