I feel awful about it but I just can't have sex anymore with this pregnancy. My ligament pain is just so bad that all positions are just so uncomfortable. Takes me like 10 minutes to change positions and I huff and puff to finally get a tad more comfortable to then find my husband has lost interest. Sad considering my husband and I have a very good sex life but man...just isn't happening anymore. So, who is still able to have sex? Lucky you!
Re: Who is still having sex?
Just before 30 weeks I started with a series of PTL scares so now on doctor ordered pelvic rest for the remainder of pregnancy (which I am completely ok with).
DH and I just focus on spending more time together and intimacy that doesn't involve sex.
After I'm cleared from healing from delivery though....it's on!!!!
What is this life?
H is coming home soon and I fully intend on jumping his bones. Do people still say that? Lol
Edited because I almost forgot how long we have been together. Pregnancy brain.
9 more weeks to go!
I don't have any examples to show, but just from what I have read, some marriages do fail due to lack of sexual intimacy, but it's also because sex was the only "driving force" in the marriage. There was nothing else to support the marriage, for example there weren't any shared common interests, beliefs etc. You can still be affectionate after birth without being sexually intimate so your relationship doesn't have to suffer negatively.
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