I feel bad

Re: I feel bad

• modanz1 member

  October 2015

  I don't think that makes you a horrible person. We all feel pretty shitty at this point. The only thing keeping me from being really overwhelmed is knowing that it's temporary.  I keep telling myself I can do anything for a little while.  

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• arlindaj25 member

  October 2015

  I am overwhelmed with everything and this is by far my worse pregnancy. I just feel bad that I feel this way. I only have 9 weeks to go and I'm just over it now

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• jenbstevens member

  October 2015

  I don't think that makes you a horrible person at all! If you don't feel good it's hard to enjoy anything. Definitely cut yourself some slack, being upset at yourself over it isn't making the situation any easier for you. This is my first pregnancy and there are times I have been absolutely miserable. Accept that and move on, your LO will be here soon!
  

  
  

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• kyraaD member

  October 2015

  honestly, i feel exactly the same. I'm really not liking being pregnant.. I'm always exhausted but can never sleep at night. I've gotten acne everywhere it seems. my legs are always in so much pain. morning sickness was awful! my boobs hurt. i pee constantly.. it sucks!
  but in 6 months it is all sooo going to be worth every bit of this misery. i love my LO & i cant wait to meet him/her.. almost as much as i cant wait for this pregnancy thing to be over with, lolol.

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• parkerm451 member

  October 2015

  I feel the same, I only have nine weeks to go but this is my worst pregnancy. I've gotten everything with this pregnancy, morning sickness, smell sensitivity, etc. Now with the third trimester my back constantly aches, I have a restless foot when I go to sleep and it takes me a while to get comfortable to sleep and my Braxton hicks hurt more, and I wake up every morning to my crotch feeling like I've been kicked all night. I love my baby and want her to be healthy but I am so ready to be done.
  

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• arlindaj25 member

  October 2015

  I feel the same way. I only have 9 weeks to go as well. I have terrible heartburn back pain and I'm just emotionally drained from this process. I just wish these 9 weeks would fly by already

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• BowWowBowie member

  October 2015

  I'm generally an angry/stabby pregnant person. Not everyone feels rainbows and butterflies when they're pregnant. You're not an awful mother for not enjoying it. 

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• kittyberet member

  October 2015

  It's okay to not like the profess but love the end result. I hate bring pregnant but I love my kids. I'm not even a little sad that this pregnancy is my last.

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• PrimRoseMama member

  October 2015

  arlindaj25 said:

  I'm a horrible person for not enjoying or basking in my pregnancy. At first it was okay but as it progressed I started getting sick, body aches and just started to hate it. I mean I love my baby boy but this is really getting under my skin. I'm not depressed or anything just miserable and I wasn't like this with any of my 3 other children

  Some definitely have a hard row to hoe with pregnancy. Its a real slog for you and I'm sorry you feel so cruddy. I hope you feel better ASAP.
  

  
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• tmo51324 member

  October 2015

  This is my 4th. With the other three I gained loads of weight, my skin was awful, everything hurt but I loved every second! This time I'm gaining a normal amount, my skins fine and nothing hurts. I'm even sleeping perfectly well! But I'm soo grumpy and miserable all the time. I obviously love my bump and am very grateful that I'm healthy and baby is wriggling etc but I'm just done with the whole pregnancy thing. I'm 31+3 and just can't wait to hold my baby and get my (lumpy, stretch marked, mother of 4 kids) body back!

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