TTC after 35

TWW post (week of 10/5 - 10/11)

Hi everyone! This is a two week wait post for anyone who is in or soon will be in the TWW. Tell us your symptoms (no matter how crazy they may be!), how many DPO you are, and when/if you'll test. Good luck everyone!

Please let us get some BFPs - and no more drive-bys!!  WTH?!!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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Re: TWW post (week of 10/5 - 10/11)

  • daisy62103daisy62103 member
    edited October 2015
    Hi all!

    I'm 3dpo today according to FF. I have no symptoms of anything. My low back is very sore, but I don't think that's connected to TTC.

    Have a ton of cheapies I want to pee on but don't want to be disappointed. It's slightly less disappointing to get AF than to hope to see two lines and not. AF is due Oct 16 at the latest so will definitely test Oct 17 if she hasn't made her appearance by then. My OB wants me to start progesterone suppositories right when I get a bfp though, so that makes me think I should test earlier to get started on them earlier if it is positive.....

    I think I'm just overthinking things. These two weeks sure do drag. 

    I turn 37 at the end of November and so badly want a bfp before then.

    How does everyone else handle the tww? I have no time to think about it during the day, but obsess at night.

    Good luck to everyone!
    DD 6/2007
    DS 4/2009
    m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
    m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
    DD 12/2013
    mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks  <3
    Twin girls! 8/26/2017


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  • I have been handling it by lurking the June 16 BMB. I just love to torture myself.
      • TTC #1 since August 2014
      • currently on 5th medicated IUI cycle
  • @whiggrrl65 ah yes I've been there...  
    DD 6/2007
    DS 4/2009
    m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
    m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
    DD 12/2013
    mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks  <3
    Twin girls! 8/26/2017


  • Posted on the old tww post that I too had some heartburn and nausea. So tempted to make it mean something. But trying to remain rational. I'll test on 10/14 since we leave for vacation on 10/15, which is also when AF is due. I *so* want to show up at my parents' house with good news....
  • I'm waiting to O..think it's happening tonight. We'll see what my temps do in the morning. I got a peak reading yesterday and today.
    Good luck ladies! Fx for everyone [-O<

    Ps. Not sure what the drive-by are about...
    I agree with @1inthehopper, it's nice we don't have drama here.
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I'm on day 8 of the 2ww and going crazy. I've been doing an HPT every morning since Saturday. Thank God for wondflo so I have a pack of 50.
    I've been extremely tired lately like I fell asleep on the couch around 2:30 on Saturday. But I'm up early during the week and have a 4 year old so could just be I'm exhausted. Lots of heartburn lately but who knows. Unless I have a positive HPT I'm not looking into anything as a symptom.

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  • Test date was 10/5 came back BFN.  Still just spotting  Had horrible cramps Friday morning like my stomach was being torn apart.  Called nurse yesterday and she said to test every few days until I start or get a positive.  Told DH if neither came by the end of the week I'm gonna call back.  Next IUI will be my last since RE will only do 3 because he says the chances go down after the 3rd one and we decided when we first started talking to RE we would not do IVF.  FX for more BFPs 
  • Hi ladies. I'm new here. Just realized this board is here! I hope this is ok as an intro instead of a diff post.

    I'm 35 and ttc #3. I'm planning on testing Thursday when AF is supposed to show up.

    Good luck to everyone this month! FX
  • So sorry @agriffin92013 I hope the cramping, etc sorts out. And, if there's not a BFP lurking around in there for you this time, here's hoping the next one is THE one!
  • @agriffin92013 so sorry! What a bummer. I hope the next time is it for you!

    I'm still waiting to O but just wanted to say I'm cheering you all on! Go team! Go team! Go team!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
  • @agriffin92013 - fx for you that there is a sneaky BFP on it's way. If not, then I hope next time is IT!

  • Thank you @Sporty1216 @jilligan14 and @CourtJack  FX for y'all also
  • I'm waiting to O . . . so nothing to report here :)
    Me: 37, DH: 44
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Canada




  • I was getting excited because I was one day late.... But AF arrived this morning... And very heavy. Just started drinking some herbal concoction that my boyfriend 's relative brought for me from Dominican Republic. Let's see how it goes this new cycle. Keeping my fingers crossed for all the ladies who are still in the 2ww.
  • Sorry AF came @Jentje79 ...
    I'm curious about the herbs you're drinking? Is it to help regulate cycles?
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I probably O'd today since I got a trigger shot at my OB's office yesterday. It usually happens CD13 or 14 since I hadn't by CD15 they checked and I had a follicle that measured 2.5 so they gave me the shot. I'm hopeful that it helps. My birthday is 10/16 and AF is due 10/17. A BFP would be a nice birthday present...
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • Good luck!!!!!! Hoping for a BFP for you!!! Happy Birthday btw!
  • I'm out. AF showed up this morning.  Waiting on nurse to call be to see if RE will change meds up since this will be last IUI.  FX for the rest in TWW
  • So sorry @Jentje79 and @agriffin92013 Here's hoping next cycle is your cycle! And I hope something nice happens today for each of you.
  • @thistle8677 l have no idea what it's called, I'll ask again and let you know. According to the lady that brought it for me, it's supposed to "let one stick for sure" . It's popular for that purpose in her country.
    @Sporty1216 thank you for the nice wishes. Chocolate would be good...the one with hazelnut in it
  • pumaprnc7pumaprnc7 member
    edited October 2015
    I'm in the TWW now and going crazy trying to keep myself busy. Only symptoms are a bit of cramping and I know it's normal but it makes me wonder if IUI worked. I'm 7dpiui will POS on 15th. Hopeful, scared, and excited all at once. Good luck to all of you for a BFP!!!!

    ME:37 DH:30

    MARRIED: 07/19/2010, TTC #1: 07/19/2010

    DX: PCOS, First IUI: 10/01/2015, BFN

  • @createillumination --I hear ya! My boobs were SUPER sore this morning (and are still sore this afternoon) and I was like "what the heck is going on?!" And then I responded to myself with a really sophisticated "ooohhhh---that's a symptom!" I am going crazy. Feeling that lump in my throat I had when pregnant with LO and now the sore boobs. It needs to be next Wednesday NOW so I can test.
  • Looks like I'm out. I'm 12 DPIUI and bfn this am on a FRER. I really thought this was it after doing injectibles. I'm trying not to be devastated. I know that sounds dramatic but this just sucks so bad. My 38th birthday is two months away and I really wanted to be pregnant by 38.

    We are going to try one more IUI and then take a break. I've been doing medicated cycles since May and want to give my body a break. I'm glad to have a plan but this sucks.
      • TTC #1 since August 2014
      • currently on 5th medicated IUI cycle
  • I'm so sorry @Whiggrrl65 I'm glad you have a plan too, but it does suck. Darn it.
  • @Whiggrrl65 - so sorry! What a bummer!!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
  • @Whiggrrl65 I'm sorry! :(
    DD 6/2007
    DS 4/2009
    m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
    m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
    DD 12/2013
    mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks  <3
    Twin girls! 8/26/2017


  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    edited October 2015
    whiggrrl65 !

    (For some reason, this was only showing my tag, not my whole comment. When I hit edit, my whole comment was there.)

    (Saved my edit and it still didn't show my whole comment.  But it said "Sorry to hear it, whiggrrl65!")
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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