I guess I'm mostly wondering what went on at everyone's 38 week checkup. Was cervix checked and all that. I just had mine and she didn't check any of that. No pelvic exam at all. Unfortunately, I don't get to chose who I see and I see a different doctor ever visit so I'm not sure what's normal or not.
Re: 38 week doc appointment??
I'm refusing any cervical checks till labor starts.
You can always request an exam if you'd like the information, but honestly, some women are 50%effaced with 2cm dilated and don't give birth for weeks, others will have high cervixes doing nothing and go into labor the next day. It's not a great indicator, especially for first time moms.