hello! Just a quick question! My babe has always been a good self settler ... For naps and gone start of the night! She goes to bed totally awake and falls asleep on her own 90% of the time... But when she wakes in the night it's another story! She will cry and scream and throw up for hours if I let her!? I thought the idea of putting them down awake and letting them learn to self soothe helped with the night waking a also!? Am I wrong? She is almost 1 year. Anyone in the same boat!? Advice?! Crying it out is not an option as she goes 2-3hours and then no one in the house gets sleep, and she can self settle so why not in the night?