Trying to Get Pregnant

Talking to husbands/partners about TTC

2»

Re: Talking to husbands/partners about TTC

  • My DH is supportive to an extent, but doesn't really care about details.He's open to trying and wants another child but he's more of the "it'll just happen" kind of guys. He wants a boy and keeps asking if I'm ovulating (because supposedly BD the day of O increases chance of a boy) but that's about it. He doesn't seem to want to be burdened by the details.
    30, DH 34
    TTC #2

  • Loading the player...
  • My DH tuned me out until we got pregnant and had a MC. He previously was one who just thought "Oh this will be no biggie". Now, he's super supportive and involved in it. He'll remind me to take prenatals and takes comparison pics of OPK's. He only gets onto me if I start to get down about it.  
  • My husband is not annoyed by it. He listens and understands and is equally excited as I am for us to conceive. He thought we'd conceive in our first cycle and now he's certain we'll conceive this cycle; he doesn't like it when I put a negative spin on things, but I appreciate his optimism! 
  • Paigets81 said:

    My DH tuned me out until we got pregnant and had a MC. He previously was one who just thought "Oh this will be no biggie". Now, he's super supportive and involved in it. He'll remind me to take prenatals and takes comparison pics of OPK's. He only gets onto me if I start to get down about it.  

    ^This! He feels so bad about constantly saying "it'll happen right away!".

    He's great now, but I avoid talking to him about CM... Mainly because I always want him to be willing to have sex and I don't think that's a huge turn on!

    Me (31) & DH (32)
    Married 9/27/2014
    DD Born 6/23/16
    Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"