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mrsmommyamrsmommya member
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Post d&c appt and the doc said one period then we have the green light. I really don't want to wait. She said there really isn't that much risk to the baby except having extra dna in the uterus. She said it is mostly for dating purposes.

Anyone go against medical advice?
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  • ceclarlinetloceclarlinetlo member
    No I just waited the one cycle - didn't want to chance anything.
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    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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  • vallericvalleric member
    I waited, if something bad did happen I would have blamed myself.
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  • PeggyOlsonFTWPeggyOlsonFTW member
    I'm in the same boat @mrsmommya We were going to NTNP, but I got super nervous about another miscarriage, so we're taking it easy until AF shows.

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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    After my first mc (at 5 1/2 weeks) my Dr. told me to wait 3 cycles, then after the last one (D&C at 13 weeks) he said only one cycle, I am 37 and after 2 losses can't keep waiting too long, but even though waiting sucks it is better to do as they say because like pp said, what is something God forbid where to happen you wouldn't want to feel like if only you would've just waited a bit...

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • MrsGargoyleMrsGargoyle
    You shouldn't be finding anyone here who will tell you to go against doctors advice. Give yourself the extra few weeks to recover, TTCAL is stressful and you've just been through a profound loss.

    All advice given based on lengthy personal experience.

    I am not a doctor, I just have a working medical vocabulary.

    Always available to answer questions about loss, infertility, and TRP.

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  • ChichigoChichigo member
    We waited until AF returned, which was right around a month.
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  • mrsmommyamrsmommya member
    Hoping todays temp rise is ovulation today or tomorrow. My lp is usually 10-12 days so maybe af is impending!

    Thanks for all your support girls. It has been 2 weeks since my surgery and I am still finding myself shocked that this is all really happening to me.
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  • mamahazeymamahazey member
    We didn't wait... And got pregnant again right away... And had a chemical pregnancy. I suggest waiting.
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  • R0824HR0824H member
    I second waiting and following the suggestion as well, I know it's hard to wait. We were told we did not have to wait but for dating it would be best. We didn't try (as in BD EOD) but we ended up getting PG before my next AF...and it is now ending. Give your body some time to heal.That's our plan this time around, I know it sucks and nobody wants to bench themselves for another possible 30-40 days but if that means getting your health back on track it's worth it.
    TT#1 July 2015
    BFP#1 & MC:August 2015      BFP: #2 10/01/2015 MC: 10/09/2015   BFP #3: 12/22/2015 @ 5 weeks  MC/CP: 12-23-2015
    Fertility Appointment: Feb 23/16, Hysteroscopy 03/02/2016,
    BFP #4: 03/31/16 EDD 12/01/2016 
       
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  • mrsmommyamrsmommya member
    So sorry to hear that @R0824H  We will definitely be waiting the cycle the doctor suggested.  I know it is tough, but what is best.
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