Soo overewhelmed and scared this time around. :-O .. my first baby ibabymonths old and im pregnant again. Been feeling derpresse, moody, lack of strength, nauseas. What can i do ?
Maybe you should have thought what being pregnant with a 4 month old would have been like ahead of time before you skipped on using protection. I personally wouldn't be able to handle being pregnant while mine is still so young, but congrats either way. Now's the time for you to call on friends and family to help you so that way you can rest. Also, talk to your doctor about the depression...that isn't to be taken lightly.
First of all, congrats! Having two babies close in age is special! They will have a close bond. And especially if they're the same gender then you don't have to buy anything new!:) I personally already miss being pregnant, but DH works so much I don't think I would be able to handle two babes on my own. So I understand where you may feel overwhelmed but keep in mind that some things are never as hard as they seem. And I agree, you must seek help for depression and also reaching out for a helping hand with your LO. Best wishes!
There was a previous discussion with another gal that found out she's pregnant again, take a look on there and/ or message her, you both can find support in each other.
Congrats! Don't stress.... Better now than when your first babe is walking How did you know you were pregnant? I'm always wondering because I've only gotten one period so far.
Who cares that it wasn't planned - how many actually are these days? I think everything happens for a reason. And it sounds like you're in love! You can handle it all momma. You're probably not feeling like yourself because you have a 4mo old and you're pregnant! That's a lot for your body and mind! Stay positive, eat well, drink lots of water and sleep when you can. If you're not taking vitamins, get some asap! Be sure to ask for help when you need it. You can do this! You're about to give your LO a sibling-that's so exciting!! ❤️
A 4 month old is a lot to handle so it's perfectly understandable why you'd be feeling a bunch of emotions about a second on the way so soon. Thankfully you have the 40 weeks time to wrap your head around it and get yourself emotionally and physically in a good place.
I know you're freaking out about the two but people have twins all the time, including on this board! I have to think that is harder. By the time LO2 is born your first will be walking, talking a little, eating solids, playing independently for periods of time... Hang in there, you can do it!
Re: Pregnant again
The result will be 2 adorable babies! Omg think of the photoshoot lol!
Best wishes!
How did you know you were pregnant? I'm always wondering because I've only gotten one period so far.
I know you're freaking out about the two but people have twins all the time, including on this board! I have to think that is harder. By the time LO2 is born your first will be walking, talking a little, eating solids, playing independently for periods of time... Hang in there, you can do it!