I have to decide if I want to try VBAC and I am so torn... My last pregnancy was a twin pregnancy, I went in at 36 weeks for my ultrasound and they decided it was time to deliver. I wasn't really ready for it and it was 2 days before Christmas.
I like the idea of picking the date and scheduling the birth - having arrangements for family to be with our boys.
I don't like the pain mess and anesthesia. (I would do an epidural)
I am tempted to let my body do what a woman's body is made to do but I am also nervous. And I don't want an emergency c-section or a failed VBAC.
Any advice on how to decide
Success and horror stories welcome!
TIA
Re: VBAC - anyone try it?
I will say, having experienced both c and vag birth, that the recovery time was much, much shorter and easier after a vaginal birth than c section. Just something to consider, especially since you will have older children to care for as well as a newborn.
Also, if you want to read more about this topic specifically there is a VBAC board under Pregnancy*!
BFP 1: 9/15/2013 | DD 5/23/2014
BFP 2: 9/15/2015 | EDD 5/26/2016
My mom had a c/s with both me and my middle sister..10 years later she attempted VBAC with my youngest sister. She was in labor for 24+ hours, made no progress and had an er c/s. She lost a lot of blood and had multiple blood transfusions. My mom will most likely encourage a rcs.
3 years ago my friend lost her daughter attempting to VBAC. It was horrific.
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I'm definitely going for a RPS. My labor was really hard and didn't end well (healthy baby but everything else... oof). Mentally I can't go through that again.
But, I wanted to offer luck and praise for those of you who will try for a VBAC. You are braver women than I!